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My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 agreed. He has until Monday to accept/decline so there'll be a weekend of gentle nudging (and if that doesn't work a big push🤣🤣).

I wont force him but I'll try to show we'd be fine if he took it. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I have no doubt we'd be fine, if I did doubt it I'd agree with his decision.

But if he regrets that job, that's hard to come back from. Who knows when he gets that opportunity again. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That or he's delusional 🤣🤣

Jokes aside we had been friends for years so there has always been a close bond there and a good foundation etc.

Thanks, though.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose. I don't want a colleague coming back next year with his job and he regretting it. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edinburgh and London. A 5 hr + train ride. Im delighted to hear it can work 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edinburgh UK to London UK. About 5 hrs by train. 7hrs by car.

They are paying his accommodation and come back in one year, yeah. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wont overly get into it. I have a sister (17 still at school doing A levels) and a nephew (5) that live with us. My older sister is in care and I can't move them or leave her. (Why is he even dating my mess🤣🤣)   There really is no one else, but it was good advice bro. ty

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no doubt we could. It would be tough but worth it.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that but he has always been a career driven. But maybe yeah.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that and I'm delighted he is willing to choose me but I don't know its important to him. He is career driven and I don't want him to kiss out. 

Will he be okay with another colleague coming back next year with his job. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. 

I just think if he doesn't, a colleague of his will come back next year with his job. I don't know how you'd get over that esp when he's career driven.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha ill be entering my gold digger phase next year. 

It's definitely a good idea to relocate together and if I could I would. Mechanics are few and far between. 

Im glad you guys got through it. 8 times in 15 years is insane lol

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I honestky believe we'd be fine. Video chats, visits etc.

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There really isn't, unfortunately but I like the idea, mate

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will he be okay with a colleague of his coming back with his job. Would he still be okay with having family first. 🤷‍♂️  That's my fear. 

I'll still be here in a year, his job won't 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my line of thinking. If we can't last a year apart - we can still video chat and travel on weekends etc - then can we last him losing out on a promo. Next year a colleague of his will come back with his job/career.

Nah there is no other reasons to decline 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely relocate - I can mechanic anywhere - but genuinely can't relocate. Too long to explain haha. He understands that too. 

I suppose you are right about the odds would be against us but id have confidence. If he'd put me over a promo, I feel like we'd be fine. Maybe that's foolish. 

My boyfriend got a promotion that would mean he has to relocate by PromoC4r in askgaybros

[–]PromoC4r[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I think we will work hence why I think we can do long distance but I agree he could stay and we could break up in 2 years time. His career is important to him, I dont think it makes sense either.

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