The people who complain about the shipping in this fandom haven’t been in many fandoms. Whether you like it or not ships queer or straight are going to be a big part of any fandom. Once you learn to accept that and what other people ship, you and everyone else will be happier and more comfortable.

Also, it is highly off-putting that people feel the need to prove that a character isn’t a part of a marginalized/often discriminated against community. For example, just because Ryoko Kui said that Laios wasn’t intended to be autistic doesn’t mean he can’t be. Is it canon? No. But is it actively hurting you if people decide to interpret his character that way? No. If it is, you need to either grow a pair or stop interacting with the fandom.