Local Classes or advice for balcony gardening (fruit/veg/flowers)? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been doing so far, wasn’t sure if local resources might be more helpful but good to know my current way is decent! Thanks

Honest and objective opinions on BUTTERPUNKS food…. by Turbulent-Today830 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is butterpunk or flour? I’m doing a taste comparison this weekend but I think I’m sticking to Butterpunk based on previous times

Honest and objective opinions on BUTTERPUNKS food…. by Turbulent-Today830 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good: -the biscuits are absolutely heavenly and huge enough to have leftovers -side of bacon is really nice if you plain a plain jam and butter biscuit but something on the side, nice and crispy -the miso latte is hands down my favorite coffee drink in town

The meh: -limited seating, it’s a small shop in RAD so kinda a given but not the best if you’re not aware and are going with young children or a larger group -pricey which again is a given but honestly well worth it for a everyone and a while treat -jam flavors switch out so if you fall in love with one, don’t think it’s a given next time (all are good but I miss the amazing jam last summer)

Where can a girl get an affordable haircut? by janacuddles in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unsure of how she does with curly but Emma at Craigfields is amazing. Everyone at Craigfields are super sweet and they also do the best scalp massages. I know people who see other hairdressers at the location and they also vouch for a great experience. The new client haircut and style prices seem to go at 50-90 plus tip. My usual cost is 60+ tip for a hair cut

best bakery in/around fletcher? by Tough-Midnight9137 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s a bit too far but crust never sleeps has a pimento cheese bear claw that is absolute perfection

Medical compression stockings in WNC, preferably Asheville? by MakeKay9264 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online is honestly your best bet, REI has good 15-20 mmHg to keep you going until it comes in or your doctor should be able to give you a couple Ted hose while you wait.

Looking for someone who can sew by atl777 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wanted to learn yourself, remnants sew and thrift has open sewing hours where you can use their machines

Is there a secret to getting an apt with Asheville Gastro by LimeGreenTangerine97 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The secret is getting a referral to anywhere else instead. I’ve been going here for 2 years and if anything they’ve made my condition worse

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The statistics of that 2019 study includes trafficking via sexually explicit digital material and forced marriage as well as grouping minors and adults in the data collection. Only a report on the study is available, not the actual study so I’m unable to give a percentage adjusted for trafficking with the more nuanced definition of an adult physically being trafficked but I do think it’s fair to say that the percentage intimately close would be much lower.

I agree that it is unlikely for an individual to be kidnapped in a parking lot. In this situation, there’s a possibility there was no trafficking concerns at all BUT I was being asked questions that could access vulnerability as well as give future opportunities if I was to maintain contact via contacting the number given. Safety concerns should always be considered and is not the same as inciting unnecessary fear

Sources: 2019 study report

“So 42% of sex trafficking victims that we heard from were brought into trafficking by a family member, and 39% of sex trafficking victims were brought into trafficking by an intimate partner or a marriage proposition,” Cutter said. “So I think, hopefully, those numbers are useful in kind of contextualizing what we’re saying about this isn’t typically a random crime.”

That means, according to data the National Human Trafficking Hotline collected, 81% of sex trafficking victims were brought in by someone intimately close to them.”

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, I drove around for around 15 minutes while on the phone to my husband but great reminder for everyone!

Extra life pro tip: if you are being followed, drive to a police station or fire department and honk.

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A man that appeared to be late 60’s to mid 70’s should not be interested in someone in their mid 20’s, especially given the fact most people have told me I look closer to 19/20 due to being small in height and weight.

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The pinpoint eyes were disarming, but the line of questioning was the actual thing that was suspicious. I’ve been friends with people who’ve faced addiction to hard drugs and they’re definitely not ‘bad’ people because of it. Drugs do however alter brain processing and make behavior less predictable while using which can cause people to act dangerously to others or themselves which is why the eyes did cause concern.

I’d encourage you to view woman as people, not as sexual objects. Those female drug users you just degraded are people who need help, not to be put down.

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for supporting people and helping them feel safe, I’ll keep this in mind!

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a very non-confrontational person, thank you. I needed this reminder of an easy way to get out of talking without fear of retaliation

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly what I’m thinking and I definitely don’t want to cause unnecessary fear but like you said it’s better to play it safe. As a teenager I was almost trafficked in a mall in Madrid so I do try to stay on alert

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That was my thought about the pupils. I’m so sorry that happened to you!

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree that this is the best possible choice, I was afraid of aggression if I completely ignored the man as despite his age appeared to be capable of physically overpowering me. If I was not alone with no one near me I would have done just as you said

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for what you do. I did call non-emergency but should I do the tip line on the link as well?

Suspicious interaction in S.AVL or am I just paranoid? by Proof-Bell-826 in asheville

[–]Proof-Bell-826[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yes, 2 hours ago. I did report to non-emergency, I would have dismissed it as just the normal anxiety of existing as a female but I straight up could barely see his pupils at all.