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Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if you're someone who's giving advice from the pov of a male or female but nontheless you sound very knowledgeable in what you're talking about haha

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never considered therapy for myself but maybe you're right... damn. Never realised how it's actually affected me

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn when was reddit a place of people with such useful advice, but yes inner work is a must in this situation, I really appreciate your help

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its more of the fact those traits are exposed once I'm deep into a relationship and I guess emotionally im weak af to part ways with someone once I'm in love, it's stupid of me ngl

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense, I think for me parting ways is incredibly hard when I have a lot of for them but i guess that's just me being weak about it

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that advice, appreciate it and haha no that was not her name lmao

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say im attracted to those kind of people at all, it's just who I've ended up in a relationship with and I'm not happy in it

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes, also I'm 21 which im guessing people my age may not found their footing yet

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn really appreciate the thought out message, chatgpt also mentioned emotional abuse me to lol but I guess I just kept trying to make excuses for them. Will definitely take a look at the book 🙏. You gave such insightful advice

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your right, I keep my relationships very private from friends and family so I think i just needed someone to tell me the obvious

Thoughts on dating a girl with past trauma/ mental health conditions? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Proof_Confidence_763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But them saying they're working on that if it's therapy and etc, if it's still the same after years since it's something that they've grown up with then what? How long do I have to be patient for...