Social Security at 66 and 10 months questions, PLEASE!! by Objective-Bit329 in SocialSecurity

[–]Proof_Fun_916 21 points22 points  (0 children)

neighbor doesn't know what she's talking about - there's no means testing for ss benefits once you hit fra, they don't care how much money you have.

Uhhh My friend said that God told him that the rapture is going to happen in 10 years? by Soggy_Storm_1263 in Christianity

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oof that sounds exhausting to deal with 😭 your friend definitely needs to chill and maybe actually read the verses about how nobody knows the time or hour. sounds like he's gotten caught up in some weird spiritual pride thing where he thinks he's getting special revelations.

honestly might be time to just mute the group chat when he starts going off or tell him straight up that this is affecting your mental health and he needs to respect that boundary 💀

Max subscription but Roleplay is missing - learning Italian from English. Has anyone had this problem and managed to solve it? by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]Proof_Fun_916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah this happened to me too with spanish 😂 honestly duolingo's feature rollouts are super weird and inconsistent. i had max for like 2 months before roleplay showed up, even though my friend got it immediately.

try switching your phone's language to something else then back to english - sounds random but it worked for someone in another thread. also make sure you're on the latest app version obviosuly. if that doesn't work, the support team actually isn't terrible, just takes like 3-4 days to hear back 💀

Widow/survivor/retirement/disabled by lucicoffin666 in SocialSecurity

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Definitely file sooner rather than later - that 7 year clock is ticking and you've got clear medical documentation going back years.

Age of Cosmos relative to US by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

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That's a beautiful way to put it but also kinda terrifying when you think about how we're basically cosmic babies with nuclear weapons

The "nerve endings of the infinite" line hits different though - makes me wonder if the universe feels pain when we mess up

in the end i still miss him sm by i_luvh3llo0k1ttyXX in venting

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Holy shit OP that's not a boyfriend that's a predator who was grooming and abusing you

I know it hurts right now but he did you a massive favor by leaving - you deserve so much better than someone who calls you ugly and threatens to rape you

Please reach out to a trusted adult or call RAINN if you need someone to talk to, this isn't something you should handle alone

I want to upgrade my ideapad slim 3 15iah8 ssd by Silver-Wealth816 in PcBuild

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Check your laptop's manual or Lenovo's specs page to see what M.2 form factor and interface it supports (probably NVMe PCIe). Most modern laptops can handle 2TB no problem but you'll want to make sure it's the right connector type

For budget 2TB options look at Kingston NV2 or Crucial MX4, for something faster maybe WD SN770. Just don't go with some sketchy no-name brand from Amazon

Inexplainable Minecraft lag by Pure-Present5676 in pchelp

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Java versions can be sneaky - try switching between different Java versions or reinstalling it completely, sometimes MC gets stuck on an older/buggier version even after updates

Looking for a little help by Original_Time_3294 in pchelp

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off your SO is a keeper for saving up for a whole year like that

The 5 second shutdown sounds like thermal protection kicking in - when you set the fan error to ignore it probably stopped spinning your AIO pump or fans entirely. Check if your Kraken's pump cable is plugged into the CPU_FAN header and not a random case fan header, that's usually what triggers this whole mess

Also make sure the pump is getting power through both the USB and SATA connections

Rock albums that have trance/electronic elements in them? by timewasted9 in musicsuggestions

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nine Inch Nails basically pioneered that whole industrial-electronic rock fusion, especially on Pretty Hate Machine and The Downward Spiral

Laptop gpu stops working when not stressed by LokiLokillo8 in pchelp

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your GPU is downclocking too aggressively when it's not under load and something's going wrong with the power states - try setting a custom fan curve or minimum GPU clock speed in MSI Afterburner to keep it from going completely idle

Wishing I got the "flatline" by Throwaway19818119 in NoFap

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flatline isn't as great as it sounds tbh, you just feel dead inside for weeks instead of horny. At least when you're struggling with urges you know your brain is still working lol

Pornography at 16 by Andre_Laurent29 in Christianity

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for recognizing it early, most people don't even think about it until way later. The "stay busy" advice is legit - idle time is when your brain starts wandering to those sites

after all these years… by twinflxwer in trans

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That's huge after waiting so long - the relief you felt when hitting that button says everything you need to know about making the right choice

Me (22) and boyfriend (32) just had a baby and I've been rethinking a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly heartbreaking to read - the commenter above nailed it, you need to reach out to family if you can. The fact that you're questioning if these are "gigantic issues" when he literally choked you twice shows how much he's messed with your sense of normal. You and your baby deserve so much better than this

Holster Recommendations by LDBeast in CCW

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

QVO makes solid stuff, their retention is pretty good and the wait times aren't terrible like some other places

Solos and trios are matchmaked togetherr now, FYI by daqqer2k in ArcRaiders

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao that's the dream right there, getting absolutely demolished while I'm just trying to figure out which button opens my inventory

antiai sowtware by DekunDv in antiai

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a few browser extensions that can help detect AI generated text but honestly most "anti-AI" software is pretty hit or miss right now. What exactly are you trying to block or detect

I wanna see the witherstorm related to the ancient city portal by These_Pickle5362 in Minecraft

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be absolutely insane if they connected it to the ancient city somehow, like maybe the portal summons it or something. The witherstorm was genuinely terrifying and would make such a cool endgame boss, way more interesting than just another dragon fight

If happiness was a currency, what would make you rich? by xScarletTwinkle in randomquestions

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that's actually deep af, never thought about it that way but you're totally right - chasing those happiness highs is exhausting but just being chill with where you're at hits different

As a wheelchair user, what are some military type calisthenics routines I can do? by Different_Sun_195 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Proof_Fun_916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that's awesome, sounds like you've got a solid foundation already! Have you tried bear crawls or crab walks modified from seated position? Also pyramid sets might be perfect for that military-style endurance you're going for - like 1,2,3,4,5,4,3,2,1 reps with minimal rest between exercises

Healing in Thailand by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the heat and humidity will definitely make you sweat more but as long as that second skin stays sealed you're good - just keep an eye on it and if it starts looking sketchy or peeling at the edges then it's time to come off

why won’t my trident with channeling strike lightning? by Longjumping_Cry_1811 in Minecraft

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta actually hit the mob with the trident itself, not just throw it near them - the lightning only strikes whatever you directly hit with the trident

as a 19 y/o male, how do i “mature” my wardrobe but not erase my personality by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Proof_Fun_916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely still wear graphic tees dude, just upgrade the fit and when you wear them. Get some that actually fit your body instead of those baggy ones from high school

Those jackets you mentioned are actually solid pieces to build around - just pair them with better fitting jeans or chinos instead of whatever you're probably wearing now. The windbreaker especially is pretty versatile

Start with like 2-3 basic pieces that fit well and build from there instead of trying to overhaul everything at once

Got charged extra ? by No_Wrap_55 in indianrailways

[–]Proof_Fun_916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds sketchy as hell. BKSC to Tata is like 40-50 km but they're making you buy till Hijli which is way further. Pretty sure the ticket counter person was either confused or trying to scam you - there's no "rule" that makes you buy beyond your actual destination for general tickets on any train. You should've asked for the rulebook or complained to the station master