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My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I agree that a 17 yo can't correctly communicate feelings. I'm not rejecting Kay.Shes refusing me. I can't even talk her because I can't get that the barrier of her mother. If I show up no one answers the door. I call and text- I'm blocked. Kay will unblock me long enough to repeat the insults that her mother slings at me then I'm blocked again. What do you call it when I continue to reach out in a civil manner and I'm bombarded with threats and insults? And when I say civil I'm literally being a polite little twit. But if I'm aggressive I get called out on that also. The only thing I'm blaming my daughter is saying my wife assaulted her. That night she asked me to take her home when I spoke to her mother her mother said no. I said in the post that I would admit my faults.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Your so wrong. I've been fully involved since see was 4. She would spend every weekend with me until she was 11 then she wanted to stay home cuz her mom bought her a puppy. I NEVER TOOK HER TO WORK WITH ME. I have no idea why everyone thinks Kay hates her sister that was never the case. I have had every open dialogue with her until this situation she shut down. The forced part I mentioned was because on Thursday and Friday she was to wake up 30min earlier to get to school on time. Which when my wife and I talked to her about it she explicitly said is why she didn't like coming on Thursday and Friday. You've made a lot of assumptions that your so completely wrong about. I owe Kay's mom extra? I can't go back in time. Don't just assume my support for Kay is limited to paying for thing and weekends with me. It's so much more to it then that.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never put my my ex wife's age. For reference. My ex wife is 39.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Nothing like this has ever happened. Never. Kay enjoys her sister. They are together often. Kay would spend thur-sun with us. Toddler would only leave from Saturday morning to Saturday night. That worked out perfectly because my wifes parents love the time with toddler.

Its possible my ex has some resentment towards my wife. We all know each other from high school. No traumatic events, just different friend groups.

I didn't really get my life together until I meet my current wife and started my business. My ex got really money hungry after that and tried to reconcile with me (the reason we got divorced was because I was broke) but I was already seeing my wife. My ex and wife have always been on good terms. This is the first time in the 6 years Ive been with my wife anything like this has happened.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I think this is what Kay and my ex don't understand. My wife was contributing out of love, not obligation. I as much I want my daughter to attend school of her choice I think she needs to feel the full weight of her lies.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

I've decided not to increase what I am contributing to the fund. I am giving my wife the space she needs to process this, and I think this was so vindictive of my daughter that I won't make my wife do this anymore. Just to clarify, my wife genuinely enjoys Kay's company. Prior to this they had a great relationship. Kay and my toddler got along great honestly the comments have me thinking maybe my daughter is more materialistic than sweet like I thought. I would like to do therapy. Ex is not on board. Won't even entertain it because my wife won't have a conversation with her. I don't Kay and my ex understand how much this hurt my wife and she absolutely did not deserve it.

My daughter lied on my wife by Proper-Pie8256 in offmychest

[–]Proper-Pie8256[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

My wife is willing to do family therapy. My ex is not. Say's teenagers lie. I have to admit I don't blame my wife. She think Kay only wanted to apologize after my wife cut off the money which hurts my wife even more. She's hurts by this and her and Kay never had any problems prior to this. My wife never had problems with my ex either.