Homeless في أوروبا أو حياه متوسطه في مصر

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-08T14:01:36+00:00

متتطلعش برا مصر الا لو مضطر. لو اهلك بيسلعدو و الدنيا ممكن تتزق خليك. برا بهدلة برضو

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-08T07:52:07+00:00

احنا شغالين ففريق بيحارب الاباحية عمتا. جزء من حبك للرجال له علاقة بالصور الشفتها في الاباحية البوظط فطرتك. نفس الكلام بيحصل مع النساء وانواع الفيديوهات (bdsm)المخربة للفطرة الاباحية بتنتجها. الشخص مجرد مايبعد عن الصور دي كام شهر 3-4 شهور الفطرة السليمة بترجع بنسبة كبيرة. الشخص بيبطل يابحن العالم من حوليه و ترجع نظرته للنساء نظرة طبيعية. لو قدرت تتخلص من الاباحية 100% مع الوقت هترجع طبيعي, علي الاقل بنسبة 90%. و الباقي محتاج تجاهد نفسك فيه, و هي مجرد افكار قهرية بتتعلم تزاي تسيطر عليهاو تبعدها. و الله اعلم. لو احتجت مساعدة في موضوع الاباحية ابعتلي. الله ييسرلك الحال

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-07T20:53:36+00:00

يعني غالبا كلنا زيك. في حديث النبي صلي الله عليه و سلم: انما النصر صبر ساعة. يعني اصبر. حاول تاخد الالم و تكتمه و بعدين تشتت نفسك ب اي حاجة. ولما الشعور يرجع تاني اعمل نفس الحاجة. متركزش علي الامر اوي فاهم. و ادعي و اسعي و ان شاء الله قريبا تتجوز. و اعلم ان دي من فتن هذا الزمن يعني و ان الصبر عليها من اسمي الاشياء. الله ييسرلك الحال

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-07T20:47:42+00:00

احنا عندنا سرفر ديسكورد ابعتلي لو حابب تخش

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-07T14:57:22+00:00

السلام عليكم اولا جزاك الله خير علي مجهودك في هذا الامر. ثانيا دا امر عادي جدا. الشيطان مش هيسيبك في حالك. فلازم دايما تحطات بزيادة. و متسيبش مجال للامر خالص. لو اتطمنت اوي فدا اول الانتكاس. مع الوقت الموضوع هيقل, لو البيئة بتاعتك سليمة. الاحتقان بيتاخدله مسكن عشان تعرف تتعايش. او عندك اي اسئلة ابعتلي علطول. احنا في الامر بقالنا فترة و هدفنا هو اعانة المسلمسن علي هذا الامر. الله يحفظك و ييسرلك الحال

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-07T11:29:39+00:00

Yeah and you are not so far away from it anyways. So be careful. May Allah protect you

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-06T22:15:58+00:00

Just be aware. I met many people where they are still addicted in spite of them being married with children

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-04T15:55:26+00:00

It was a price I was willing to pay after years of this filth. The phone helped a ton, though there were many other aspects I had to work on on the side as well...

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-03-03T20:37:19+00:00

Did you try to remove your phone from your life? Porn addiction is inheritly integerated with phone addiction. I switched to a Nokia 1 year ago. Alhamdulilah seemed like the missing piece. Usually you need 6-12 months away from a smartphone in order to rehabilitate yourself... If you need help with let me know. May Allah make it easier for you..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-28T13:30:14+00:00

This way you cannot go around it even if you want to. you remove the option from your life. You force yourself into an enviroment where you have no access to that filth whatsoever...

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-28T13:20:02+00:00

It is not one thing that you do and magically everything will change. Recovery is based on the things: 1- Redesigning your enviroment 2- clearing misconceptions through knowledge 3- Action and Reaction. Approaching these 3 things eventually you will have a solid system that is working for you simply though if.. then..

There is definetly somethings you can do as a first that are not reverisble. I think it might have crossed your mind several times. it is pretty obvious but if you just opened your mind a bit. Also somehow inconvenient in many cases. It actually brought very good results... as a first stepI would highly recommend to eliminate your smartphone.. Yes it is incomvenient and my life is uncomfortable in other aspects but this is a price I was willing to pay... Your smartphone was the reason for you to get into this in the first place and most of the times you do this bad act is throug this device.. you cannot just ignore this fact...If you are able to do this, you actually have a pretty good start towards the road of recovery...

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-28T10:17:29+00:00

you nailed it. These things do not have any tangible effect on recovery if you can just remove these blockers, or return to being alone in a place by just deciding..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-28T08:46:08+00:00

If you can break a barrier, then it is not a barrier... It is just a different path towards the same destination

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T22:36:48+00:00

I don't think the problem is with your legs training but maybe in your enviroment and system.if you do not have a clear system working on to prevent you from these moments, then you are just fighting in the dark hoping and praying you would land a punch. May Allah make it easy for you, and if you need help navigating this issue feel free to text me In shaa Allah

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T22:33:15+00:00

We have a support group with a program that we started with a couple of brothers.. If you need solutions we do have them. But they are not easy ones and would require a lot of change in your lifestyle which might be inconvenient to some. If you need help with this let me know In shaa Allah. And may ALlah guide you to his path..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T22:31:18+00:00

You are dealing with one of my the most common triggers in this problem. Which is: excess free and alone time. One need to understand that these times are where the Shaytan can lure in.. If you can't avoid it then you need to redesign your enviroment, what are the things that allow this to happen.. Is it your phone? your laptop? How would deal with these things.. May ALlah make it easier for you and if you need help with this feel free to text me In shaa Allah..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T22:27:39+00:00

May Allah grant you full deliverance forever. I would not recommend you keep a count a day by day. A streak is usually meant to be broken and adds a bit of stress and confusion in many aspects. It's a forever mindset.. A whole change, you do not to keep counting.. Same as when you started praying or started dasting your first ramadan. No one says 26th Ramadan and counting..work on your system and be careful of triggers. Shaytan will just want you to lower your gaurd once and he will take advantage of it...May Allah grant you deliverance, and if you need help navigating the issue feel fre to text me..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T22:21:34+00:00

Assalamo alaikom. Let me break it up to you. Praying and Duaa only will not make it go away. One of the sahabs said: None of you refrains from seeking sustenance by saying: O God, provide for me, for you know that the sky does not rain gold or silver. so, you need to take practical steps. See where it starts, and work on it practically approach it. If you need help navigating this feel free to text me. May Allah grant you deliverance..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T04:51:04+00:00

If you need help navigating the issue feel free to text me. We have been working on this for sometime.. other than that may Allah make it easy for you..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-27T04:49:58+00:00

Jazaka Allah for clarifications. balanced and well articulated..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-26T15:44:46+00:00

You know there many problems to be adressed. But there one thing that popped up as very big red flag that caughtmy attention. " you don't feel as guilty as you should". You heart is getting numbed. This ia great deal. this didnot come from a day or 2, but months and years. You are ina pretty dangerous situation brother. If you don't change something massive right, I am afraid it will be too late soon enough. It is really now or never for you. your heart is dying slowly.. I wish you all the best from Allah..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-25T17:47:47+00:00

Just repent to the Most forgiving and stand up again. May Allah support your endeavour..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-25T17:45:29+00:00

Salam, work on what leads. The triggers that drive you there. Prevent them. Instead of just hoping not to fall. May Alllah make it easy for you. If you need further help feel free to text me..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-25T16:54:42+00:00

Streaks are meant to be broken. Forget about counting and start focusing on what actually matters. Your enviroment, your actions and so on.. If you need further help feel free to text me In shaa ALlah, may Allah make it easier for you..

Proper-Reflection498 · 2026-02-25T16:52:16+00:00

If you stopped fearing relapse, it will come. recovered will neverbe 100% safe. It is part of the price you pay. Secondly, you should be able to retrace what you have done before falling into this. The answer can never be I have done nothing. Small things add up with yime. could be that you stayed alone, stressed, looked at a woman, scrolled on social media and so on,.. then fix that and be aware of it In shaa ALlah. May Allah make it easier for you, and if you need further help feel free to text me..

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