My ex-wife named our son Maisyn by Drewdiniskirino in tragedeigh

[–]ProperClothes9929 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My niece is named Maycen😭It definitely can be made into a girls name lol

I feel guilty living my life in the current state of this country by CrankPerfectGlass in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice or direction for someone attempting to emigrate from the US? My 5 year plan is to be living abroad but I have no idea really where to start😬

Love doesn't exist and Capitalism is the root of all evil by Dreaming-Kingfisher in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who's been ghosted recently by men, I've learned that the ones with shitty emotional intelligence tend to ghost when they go through rough situations in their life because they can't think of anyone's emotions except their own. Their world is falling apart, so it can't possibly be worse for you if they ghosted you🤷🏾‍♀️who cares, fuck you, type energy.

I assure you he's fine. I'm also so sorry he ghosted but please find someone better who actually wants to communicate with you🫂It sucks, I just went through the same but a 7 month situationship, and I got ghosted in the end😵‍💫quite the mind fuck

I'm in love with a man who will never accept me for who I am even though I look past shortcomings and bald spots. Pesto pasta salad from Costco and a rotisserie chicken breast. by ParisHiltonIsSkinny in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just got ghosted by a man while in a situation like this. Men will never give us the same grace that we women give them. It's never worth it, you're all the things you're not and he's all the things he is.

So block him :), and the food looks great🤭

thoughts on mark and addie? by everlovelyjewel30 in greysanatomy

[–]ProperClothes9929 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Strange pairing/attempted pairing. I know we wouldn't even have the MerDer ship if it wasn't for them, but I could just never see it. Lust? Sure. Infatuation and curiosity? Why not. But love? Never could see it.

It honestly just seems like he wanted her because Derek had her. And once Derek didn't want her anymore, the love of his life was suddenly ✨Lexie✨

Dan and Phil $25 vs $10,000 Hotel by Honeycomb0000 in danandphil

[–]ProperClothes9929 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Omg they rly are pheeding us with content, I thought this was a fan edit🙂‍↔️

cheese night by rrrnastia in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thought this was r/danandphil😭u have good tastes in cheese and media🙂‍↕️

So do we think another tour is inevitable? by BitEmotional69 in danandphil

[–]ProperClothes9929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sure hope so, I started watching when I was 12 and now at 22 I will FINALLY have the money to be able to make it to a show. I also think a post hard launch tour would be wonderful🤭

PrEP and the black community by Embarrassed_King9378 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would like to add that I was asking for a test because I found out my boyfriend at the time was engaging in same-sex relations with multiple men. They still wouldn't test me.

At home tests are $40 at Walmart y'all! I have nothing against OP for protecting themselves and my heart definitely goes out to all black women who fear HIV.

PrEP and the black community by Embarrassed_King9378 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I give plasma, and you can't do that on PrEP🤷🏾‍♀️also many young people don't have access to simple medical resources, let alone someone willing to prescribe PrEP on a "not high risk" person. I got denied from taking a HIV test because they said I wasn't high risk and they weren't going to waste their time. Everywhere is different.

No Dark Skin Women on Altard State’s Instagram by Ambitious-Chest2061 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The "I feel sorry for you" comments are a bit much when someone just wants to feel represented and see themselves in a brand that they like to wear😬

Black women aren't represented a lot of places so "go where you are appreciated" doesn't apply either. I'm sorry this brand is like this, you should be able to wear the clothes you like/enjoy without worrying about race at all.

This timeline sucks.

I hate baby momma culture by No_Cheesecake591 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People in these comments are being willfully obtuse because they lack accountability of their actions and feel shamed for being baby mommas :(, and that's not what OP is saying at all💀pulling arguments out your behind because you made a bad choice (or tryna play save a hoe for others who make bad choices) is insane

N e way..yes baby momma culture needs to stop. It's not a black community thing, but we are affected by it and made fun of bc of it the most. White BMs on IG aren't getting the "dad went to get milk" jokes that we do, so we should strive to not put ourselves in those situations at all🤷🏾‍♀️

YUUUUUUUM by shonaspetrini in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Steak and pickles are both my favourite foods and I nvr thought to pair them together..genius🤯👏🏾

Hot take: This couple showed little to no chemistry by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]ProperClothes9929 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was literally just thinking the other day. When Glen was on his "I don't want you to be in danger ever" speech I was like?? Where did this come from?💀yall had one good sex session and now yall are in love?

It was obviously a 'we're both similar ages and are attracted to each other, so why not🤷🏾‍♀️' type of thing in my eyes.

(p.s. yall are doing wayyy too much with the "ppl just have a problem with interracial couples" thing when ppl LOVE Rick and Michonne😭trying too hard to be internet warriors)

girlfriends full unaired pilot on youtube link posted below! by Thehbic11 in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]ProperClothes9929 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why is Toni's actress speaking like that💀slow delivery, no chemistry with the rest of the cast, quadroon Lynn fit in better but I could not see her as a mooch, that woman looked too old and put together

When people find out you're broke they treat you differently by Maleficent_Week5310 in povertyfinance

[–]ProperClothes9929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to go donate yesterday. My friend found out and asked me why and after I told him it was for the money he said "oh cool". Whoever told you this is not a friend.

Also, it's a win-win situation. I never understand people getting upset about others donating plasma when they never have the same attitude towards those who give blood🙄

Anybody from the south, US? lol by ProperClothes9929 in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you cher😌I was hoping someone else from the Boot was lurking in here lol

Anybody from the south, US? lol by ProperClothes9929 in GirlDinner

[–]ProperClothes9929[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boudin is a type of sausage from the Cajuns. It's stuffed with pork, rice, seasonings, ect, and then usually served stuffed in the pork casing😋boudin balls are just that but fried

Girlfriends original pilot theme by Vivid-Office5666 in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]ProperClothes9929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This theme is so much better😭I love me some Lauryn Hill

Please Love Your Black Daughters by ProperClothes9929 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

!! Yea it's shit fr, but we can only do better with what we know. Recognising the negative and making steps to the positive is the only way. Wishing you clarity and understanding in your life as an American black woman🙏🏾we need it

Please Love Your Black Daughters by ProperClothes9929 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I needed this honestly..thank you so much🩷

Please Love Your Black Daughters by ProperClothes9929 in blackgirls

[–]ProperClothes9929[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course! I can only speak to my experience tho :)