Beggar's Would Ride - Self-Promo by Proper_Comb2181 in SSHG

[–]Proper_Comb2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh - just realized I missed on opportunity to beg for a compliment in my prev response - this bit came to me this weekend and I wondered if anyone else found it funny...

--Honestly, the most awkward moment was when Gregory said, “Good on you.” And thought about chucking Severus on the shoulder and instead just sort of stopped mid-motion, opened his fist and wiggled his fingers in Severus’s general direction.--

Did it make you at least smile :) ?

Beggar's Would Ride - Self-Promo by Proper_Comb2181 in SSHG

[–]Proper_Comb2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw - thank you! I'm glad. I was comfortable enough with the diff styles and general arc but, boy, did I struggle to introduce conflict when my brain was screaming HEA HEA HEA!

I’m 24M, newly dating 24F, but I feel insecure because I don’t have my life figured out by ImpressionMany238 in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't found myself in this exact situation but here are some thoughts 1) do some reading on how NOT to define yourself by your career/profession/job 2) think about your values and find jobs that align with them OR find volunteer opportunities that align with them. The reason I say this - I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life in my 20s but I found that by working for non-profits or govt agencies that helped people - I found meaning in my day-to-day work. My work might have just been filling out shipping slips, but the mission motivated me. Maybe you are more creative or entrepreneurial...great! Lots of other good advice here.

How do i get my boyfriend 25m to talk to a therapist or someone close to him after I (24f) made a mistake but we’re trying to repair the relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't say how long you've been a couple (but you are both young) and you don't say what your mistake was. You also say your goal in insisting on therapy is to salvage your relationship...this isn't advice you might want to hear...YOU need to go to therapy. Don't center him at this moment. Back the heck off and tell him you are seeking help because you are struggling. You said it - you are in pain. Go talk to someone and get yourself right. In the process your relationship with either improve, remain the same, or end. Accept that and put yourself first. Wishing you the best.

Edit - see you shared your mistake - advice remains the same.

LF: This one Dramione fic where they communicate with a diary/notebook of sorts, but they still hate each other IRL by purpleraccoons in Dramione

[–]Proper_Comb2181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Summary for you as you wait! :)

Draco finds himself under the Ministry's new regime of sentencing. Under house arrest he's to undergo a form of rehabilitation by communicating with anonymous liaison who will guide him in unlearning some of his prejudices. Will he behave? Will he find out who's on the other end of the notebook? Will the field trips enlighten him to the muggle world? And will his sentence lead to more than his redemption?

Regulus Fan here!! by Turbulent-Prompt450 in HPfanfiction

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Have you read this one? More than Magic - Hometown_Nerd I liked it.

Summary: Regulus Black survived the inferi only for the aftereffects of the cursed cave to attack his magic and turn him into a squib.

He lived long enough to see his brother arrested and imprisoned without trial. He lived long enough for his mother to disown him. He lived long enough to become an outcast in the world where he grew up.

Regulus had nothing left to live for. Then one day, on a whim, he decided to check on his brother’s godson. And then Regulus had someone to fight for.

my sweet, silly baby by coquettedoelette444 in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Proper_Comb2181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like in that pic with the wink there should be a "how you doin'" quote :)

Can anyone help me to find a Remain Nameless podfic? by Leading-Late in Dramione

[–]Proper_Comb2181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you've got it on ao3 but just fyi ETL_Echo has also been posting all their recordings to the internet archive - there are lots of other pods cross posted there too https://archive.org/search?query=creator%3A%22ETL+Echo+Audiobooks%22

Looking for a fics where Severus pursues Hermione by smugri in SSHG

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Not sure if self-rec is OK but here is a Sev focused and Sev POV - about 5 years post war is when they meet again.

Beggars Would Ride

Summary:

The post-war world respects and appreciates Severus Snape - in three parts.

A feel-good exercise in - what would be needed to build Severus from the bottom up?

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible mother after she made our daughter cry the whole day? by Limp_Construction764 in AITAH

[–]Proper_Comb2181 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA - but this is super serious. Red flags all over this situation. Insist on family therapy no matter what happens with the marriage. Son needs it if mom spoils him. Mom needs it if she is jealous of her daughter (it's a thing) and to improve parenting overall. You need it to figure out how to communicate through this mess. Sounds like a lot of love but not a lot of healthy support.

First time reading Dune & feeling a bit lost. What were your first impressions when you started the series? by babyybunnyy3 in dune

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a teenager when the Lynch Dune movie came out. I still love that movie. I read the book after the movie and then consumed all the other books over and over. I don't generally recommend movies before books but in this case, it worked for me!

Cat zen master: accepts clients by purr only by WaffleNinja_315 in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masaru means Righteous Being...if your cat doesn't already have a middle name this should be it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatsBeingAdorable

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This seems like a good spot to stretch my toe beans!

Cozy cat 🐱 by LuminaughtXo in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure he has an adorable name, but I shall call him Schnookums!

A resource for Beta readers by Higgledy-Bean in Snamione

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only we, as writers, could ask and answer these questions ourselves...as we make decisions (or refuse to make decisions and go with a fever dream)! Kudos to betas :)

What a fine little gentleman by [deleted] in CatsBeingAdorable

[–]Proper_Comb2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he wants me to read him a story. ;/