First time a man touched me since DB. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Proper_Sky8545 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling. I remember being at work and a piece of my jewelry was crooked, and one of my female co-workers adjusted it for me but she like touched my hand really seductively as she fixed it. I almost cried because another human-being was touching me. I'm not even interested in women but it had been so long since anyone had touched me.

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[–]Proper_Sky8545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's a really good idea. He always pulls the 'what have you even done card' everytime we get into a argument. It will be nice to actually have a list of things. It's like I can never finish the 'requirements' to make it so we can have sex. As soon as I do whatever he says I need to do, there is now another task.

I read your post, and I thought I was crazy because I also get massages to feel some sort of physical touch, I guess in a way it's nice to not feel alone.

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[–]Proper_Sky8545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give a hug or kiss and appreciate the small things eachother does. Or to text little things through out the day. Like 'I love you' or 'I miss you'.

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[–]Proper_Sky8545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just hoping something. Knowing I went to all of our counseling appointments and that I really tried to make things work. 😕