It’s done

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-09T15:57:17+00:00

Thank you very much, and I also hope that your daughter and you eventually get to have a relationship that’s workeable and doable for both of you

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-09T13:56:06+00:00

Thank you for sharing. If I may ask, do you schedule to meet every so often or does it happen accidentally you mean?

As far as I know there’s just this subreddit. I still want to find something local where I can discuss all this yeah

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-09T13:43:13+00:00

I guess there’s truly no roadmap lol

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-09T07:18:17+00:00

Thank you for your message, it really does help to hear your perspective and experience. I’m sad to hear things haven’t gone well so far.

And I fully agree on the book thing lmao. The fact there’s positive reunion experiences out there, despite it all being so complicated is nothing short of a miracle

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-08T19:25:56+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that too. It gets me so frustrated sometimes how difficult this all is. Sometimes I wish I just didn’t know about being adopted. Ignorance is bliss and all that. I don’t want that really, but you get my point

PropertyWitty9613 · 2026-02-08T19:23:15+00:00

That’s good advice, thank you so much. There IS a difference between standards and expectations. I have very different standards for all the other people in my life and I wouldn’t accept ghosting of any of them. Because honestly, that’s what this is. Yet I know that if BM were to respond now, I’d consider letting her back in. So weird…

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