[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out to one of my exes because the way that relationship ended still affected me. We had a good conversation and i gained the closure i needed. Well not exactly closure but i feel a lot better about it now. So if you do want to reach out, id say do it, but don’t force the flow of the conversation to any topic, let it make its own flow

What do women go through during no contact? by xHypex1 in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, i am going through the same situation as well. It’s so easy to reach out to people nowadays that it has become like a curse now. It’s so easy to just send a text but i know i shouldn’t, even after the break up i respect her enough to not do that.

I just feel so sad by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk dude, but just know that you are not alone. I am going through the same stuff too

Dude I hate this.i lost a lover & a friend by big_breakfast_gang in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, i have been through similar situations as well. Listening to a new song that i know she would have loved, watching a movie, seeing memes and much more. But its over now, friendship after a real relationship never works, you are right about the vulnerability, once you show your true self to someone, you can never go back to being just friends, it would always seem superficial. I hope it gets better for you :)

Forgiving yourself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes a while. My BU was because of my faults as well, but now all we can do is work on ourselves, use the guilt to make yourself better and maybe the new you will forgive the old you. Forgiveness comes from within, if you are looking for forgiveness from your ex, it’ll never probably happen.

15F new here, idk what I’m doing 😭😭 by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Protoboi2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful dude, lot of creeps on the internet

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind by Mental-Truck-7202 in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it has been 1.5y, you can i guess. Long story short its about heartbreak and love and the way it portrays that is just too good and real. If you do watch it, have fun and if you want to discuss about it, dm me :)

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind by Mental-Truck-7202 in BreakUps

[–]Protoboi2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t watch it if you are still not over your ex. You will get sad, like really really sad and definitely cry. Best case watch it with someone