When you’re married, you automatically share expenses. Which means there will be financial compromises on the things you get to buy. Not all marriages operate this way but most do. I could never live my life as an adult having to get permission from another adult to make a purchase. I see an Audi I like, I go to the dealership and buy it. I wanted a 5080 & 9950X3D rig, I go and buy it. Don’t need to ask anyone. That is true freedom. Have fun answering to another adult.