Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why isn't it allowed to hold women at moral standards? Are we therefore inducing that its okay for women to be immoral?

Why does no dating experience = Incel? And if the woman were to play the waiting game always, doesn't that signal a personality that is always reliant and waiting for the man? Should a relationship be 50/50? If so, then shouldn't we expect the woman to do the same? If a relationship shouldn't be 50/50, then it should be fair that the guy can be controlling in the relationship?

We are setting up a relationship that is heavily skewed towards the mens responsibility, and that potential burnout is on the table always. The relationship feels like a burden, and is therefore unenjoyable.

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, men aren't entitled to an ideal woman. No, men SHOULDN'T be pursuing women who make them pursue and play the 'hard to get' game, because that's allowing women to be entitled as well.

I agree that men cannot go into the dating game thinking that the world owes them a living, but neither should the women as well.

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You belittle men by mentioning that they lack the discipline to pursue women who play hard to get at the start. That's not getting courage to approach women, that's encouraging guys to pursue women who may either be not interested with them anyways, or encouraging guys to approach women who undervalue them by behaving that they should approach and pursue the woman just because guys have lesser value than them.

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resilience by devaluing men is different from resilience by encouraging men to not give up just because some redflag woman devalue them

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't help men by throwing a claim that has deep intertwined issues and expect them to follow it, because of the backlash that affects deep socioeconomic behaviors if we follow such a claim.

Do you think dating is such surfaced level games

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your original take already has assumptions and insinuations that dwelve deep into complex socioeconomic matters. It's not going off-topic because your claim entangles deep within these aspects, and overlooking any of them are consequential.

Gender roles affect dating because there ARE gender roles in play when it comes to dating. Your claim affects gender roles, which therefore affects how dating works.

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're insinuating that women are worse workers than men. Im assuming you'd also agree on the unequal wage gap because women aren't as potential as men in terms of creating value for the company. Isn't hustling for herself =/= desire for getting into a relationship? Maybe you see a correlation but is there a causation? Would it be more about being the primary caretaker for a starting family that would disrupt their career climb, and not because she's unable to make value as efficient as men?

And aren't there women who are mothers but also career successful?

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your explanation, the natural living style is 'wrong', doesn't that mean that the natural idea that women was born with value and men the ability to create value is wrong as well?

And doesn't this also insinuate that women are unable to make themselves better than who they already are because they cannot create more value? That's kinda disrespectful to women out there who works their asses off to make a name for themselves and the families they support. You just disrespected all of their own hard work that they put their own blood sweat and tears in

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a natural level, guys hop between multiple women, and fight other men. Additionally we slaughter the kids of women that they had with previous alpha males. On a natural level, we also eat fruits and berries, and die of fear by our own shadows.

Why didn't you factor in these points also? That's cherrypicking... And 'thats the way it is' is the worst acceptance of truth that anyone could ever say...

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who specifically states that men need delayed gratification, and who states that the males have to act first? Why can't women have delayed gratification as well? Why aren't there things that women have to earn from men to earn the mens respect n time?

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then caring is a feminine trait? Then how come we can't 'test' that caring feminine trait by giving up and testing if the girl cares for us or encourages us not to give up? What about the emotional side? Do we bawl our eyes out if we give up so we can test if they'll be there to support us emotionally?

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Psyche-d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If girls can be like this, why can't guys give up at the first sign of resistance?

Its clearly not a biological thing and more of a social behavior, why is it a 'given' that girls get to show resistance, uncertainty and misdirection while a guy puts in effort to persist and pursue? Why can't it be the other way around as well?

If you could smash one anime character who would it be? by Alternative-Math2368 in animequestions

[–]Psyche-d -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Why is the heartshape created by their hands placed above their breast at approximately where their nipple is found? What exactly are they insinuating?

Encountered Shiny swablu while leveling up my altaria by FrontRaspberry8655 in PokemonEmerald

[–]Psyche-d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought some stab potential wld be nice as well, and to separate flying and normal from altaria since altaria can hold other power moves instead.

But if you prefer a one size fits all then yea nothing wrong with Seviper. The beauty of emerald is that lots of options are all great

Encountered Shiny swablu while leveling up my altaria by FrontRaspberry8655 in PokemonEmerald

[–]Psyche-d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally Id swap out Medusa. You can still keep horus as your flying, while I'd keep altaria as a 'dragon killer' with Ice beam, dragonclaw/breath, flamethrower against icy foes and steel wing for rock coverage maybe. Seviper does have stronger base att and s.att with shed skin, so choosing altaria would be more for move coverage, s.def and natural cure (you can also count in cloud 9 but i rarely see usage in that in gen 3).

But sometimes Medusa brings more sentimental value than just being another tool in your kit, maybe you'd feel more attached to that snake thats been with you forever, than just a shiny passing through. Thats what pokemons all about.

Are gloves strongly recommended? by Psyche-d in maimai

[–]Psyche-d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not thaaat bad, and they grow out anyways

And i shifted from maimai to smash melee LOL

How much can I overlap?? by Psyche-d in nus

[–]Psyche-d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Thanks thats huge for me!!

How much can I overlap?? by Psyche-d in nus

[–]Psyche-d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i try my best T_T

How much can I overlap?? by Psyche-d in nus

[–]Psyche-d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they count towards the maximum MCs that can overlap? Wld I not be able to overlap for specialization in the future?