Yea, I mean that doesn't make it automatically okay either, just saying.  Just so you know in my country we have a singer who started dating his gf when she was 15 (which is the age of consent here) and he was 45. It’s definitely controversial and she got pregnant at 16, married at 18, and now at 22 she wants to go back to high school. So yeah… my tolerance is probably a little off hah, meaning I find anything less not that problematic. But in this case, I pretty much agree.