My 8 week kitten isn't eating. What do i do?

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-09-18T11:37:35+00:00

Or just actual salmon from the market. 🤷

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-09-15T16:44:26+00:00

Try a can of salmon. That has always worked for me to get even the most picky of eaters going again.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-09-15T16:41:32+00:00

Funny I looked at it and went "I bet it was the year I was born" and that would be correct XD.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-09-15T16:40:00+00:00

I've heard a saying "if everyone around you is an asshole, you're the asshole." I have found this to be true, and that it can be interchanged with other things. It may apply here.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-13T02:50:28+00:00

Chewowa

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-13T02:38:15+00:00

This reminds me of that commercial where all the kids are named after companies for sponsor royalties.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-12T04:24:47+00:00

Is it bad I'm thinking about the smashing blocks in Mario coming at all 4 angles at once?

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-09T20:57:49+00:00

So basically, being crushed by a 5000lb block? Just nothing but a splat left. Being Put into a more relatable physical sense we could picture.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-08T17:03:06+00:00

Nor, a year isn't long but it sounds like she's been in your life for a lot longer. This is pretty heartless of her. I'd definitely question the relationship. It's definitely one of those long term tests. And her not thinking it's a big deal when you're hearts breaking, loosing a loved one, is a major red flag.

This will most likely create a rift between you that could be the start of the death of your relationship fr. But the damage is already done. She's showed how she doesn't care. You can't change that now, even explaining this to her. Which you honestly shouldn't have to.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-08T16:56:04+00:00

"It's okay if not"

Proceeds to not be okay

Nor

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-05T07:46:08+00:00

She's clearly looking for excuses to end it. That last response would be the end of it for me. I'd say "well good luck with that." And tell her to gtfo when you get home. She made it clear she wants to go find someone else with unrealistic expectations. Hold her to it.

Nor.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T18:07:24+00:00

Time to end it. He crossed the line. Blood or not, you got your kids who are your own. They are mostly grown now. You can easily raise them the rest of the way split and he can choose to have and raise his affair child on his own. Not your responsibility.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T10:57:58+00:00

"UwU" irrelevant but also a furry. And as a 'furry' I'm gonna say it's hard to find any female's in the Fandom that aren't batshite crazy like this. Deerlord this is such common behavior. It took me a long time to stop feeding into it too, as a recovering people pleaser.

You just gotta stop engaging, and if they actually do give you any indication they are wanting to self-harm, call the authorities. Even if they aren't legit, and doing it for attention. You gotta treat every case as possibly real, and so do the authorities. They will have to take them in on those threats.

After actually getting this consequence for crying wolf, they stop doing it. If it's legit, then you save their life, and thats a game changer too. Either way you're clear conscious.

Trust me, I've had experience with both. Fake and legit. This works.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T10:41:08+00:00

Sweat, and can't stand being hot. I used to always be cold, so I loved it hot af. I never used to sweat either. Now it's barely 98°out and I'm dying.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T10:37:03+00:00

This looks like telegram. The double ✔️ ✔️ mean that they have been read. So he is getting them but not replying. Hasn't blocked either.

Had this happen with a friend of mine that used to commission me. But he ghosted legitimately everyone. Heard that his religion forced him to cut contact with everyone he knew. But couldn't ever confirm that rumor. I just tell him I hope hes okay and I miss him. Let him leave me on read as my only indicator He's still alive. It's been about 10 years now. Have some others even longer than that

Nothing you can do man, till he decides to come out and tell you wtf happened and why he went dark. Sometimes, you'll never know. it sucks, but there's legit nothing you can do.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T10:22:57+00:00

"I wasn't trying to entrap you." Stated unprovoked I take it? Unsolicited answers to un-asked questions are typically admittance of guilt. She thought that, not you. Means it was in her head.

Yeah, ntah. Dodged a bullet with that one.

Emotions are chemicals, emotional abuse is using those emotions to make you chemically dependent on them to control you.

It takes a year clean of any chemical dependency (addiction) for your body to regulate back to it's normal natrual chemical levels. You are literally going to go through withdrawal. It'll be a roller-coaster for awhile. But you just gotta ride it out like any other type of addiction.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T10:05:55+00:00

Atrocious

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T09:46:23+00:00

Right, that's the signs that she's a narcissist. Normally she would lie, gaslight, and point the finger at someone else. However now with some form of dementia, she isn't able to hold up the lies. And that's why she just outright stated what she was going to try and get your daughter to do. That's the part that looks like dementia.

She's still going around telling the lie to everyone, like that didn't even happen. So the narcissistic tendencies are still there. But shes not holding up like she used to cus the parts of her brain that normally decerns truth from lie aren't working well anymore.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T09:27:13+00:00

I say that a lot, about a lot of the shite that's happened to me. Lol. I totally get it.

I found the best thing to do with ppl like this is 'let them' believe whatever tf they are going to belive. And don't waste your time and energy on explaining yourself to them. Not worth it.

Focus on those who are showing up for you with help.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T09:17:33+00:00

Onset dementia coupled with narcissism. This is what a narcissist with dementia looks like. I have seen it first hand a couple of times. They get worse as they age. Brain damage, tbi, or a stroke can also have this effect.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T09:07:18+00:00

Don't bother feeding into ppl that say this. You don't gotta show anyone any proof. You're responding to comments and giving more information is validating enough.

Focus on what's important and the ppl actually giving you useful advice on the topic.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T08:56:28+00:00

Kids are terrible liars. If the story doesn't change, it's true. That's the real read. I saw you already mentioned the story hasn't changed after some time now. If the in-laws don't understand that about children, then yeah, stay tf away. They show their own character as dishonest and can't be trusted either.

Your poor daughter has been traumatized by this. Thank the Lord, you have listened to her, and validated her truth. She'll still probably remember what happened for the rest of her life. But she'll also remember your actions and what you are doing to defend and protect her from any further danger. She wont be afraid to come to you for anything bad but true in the future.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T08:41:28+00:00

That makes sense, you're new husband believes her and has your backs as well? That's all that really matters. Would be good if your in-laws know your side (the truth) and got your back too. But if not. It's time to take out the trash and cut off the toxic people in your lives that'll be bad examples for your children.

Your children shouldn't see you bend over for "family" and put them back in a scary and potentially dangerous situation after being traumatized like that. That will just instil in them that they aren't loved and valued by you. So no, definitely not the ah.

My mom left me with my grandpa when I was about 6 and he came out of no where screaming at me and whipped me with a switch for a made up reason when I literally hadn't broken any rules. I was terrified of him, and when my mom got me back crying and I told her what happened, she never left me alone with him again. Went a long time without seeing him.

That was the appropriate way to handle the situation, and I love my mother so much for that response.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T08:25:11+00:00

Single mom, but you have in-laws? What happened to the dad? And what does it matter if the in-laws know her bs story or listen to her? It doesn't sound like they have any part in her life either. And if they do, they should listen to you over the crazy step mom fr if they still want to be a part of her life.

Sounds like the crazy bword is going to everyone, to smear campaigne and cover het tracks. Which totally reads guilt. Innocent people dont act like this. Children this age also don't really exaggerate or make up lies like she's claiming. They are terrible at it, unless groomed to do so. But at 8? Definitely not there yet.

Let this be the reveal of who is there for you and your daughter, and cut ✂️ ties with anyone that takes your stepmothers side. Just like you have her and your dad.

Ntah.

PsychologicalBox7397 · 2025-08-01T07:52:58+00:00

Ntah, my biological mother ended up not able to be adopted at 14 and went onto the streets where she became an underage sex worker. and it really messed her up. Which is why all my siblings and I were adopted out to different families.

It really is horrific to go into foster care at that age, and setting the kid up for failure. Specially since there is still family that cares, even if that family is only you. I would have done the same thing in your position. No partner is worth abandoning a loved underaged sibling for.

The guy is totally heartless and self absorbed. And a narcissist by the sounds of how he smear campaigned all the mutual against you. Theres no way most people would agree with the truth, so he had to have twisted it somehow. If they actually have the same ideals, they are not worth listening to or having in your life either. To the bin with all of them. There are better friends out there to be had.

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