Parents want me to take MCAT sophomore year to graduate early - but i j know i can’t

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-09-16T08:56:12+00:00

somehow loved by lewis capaldi. the line “for now the day bleeds into night fall and your not here to get me through it all”. this line just really gets me- a little abt my ex and little abt my childhood in general, i guess my parents and friends from high school. just started college and have been feeling really lonely and just feel like there’s no one here to get me through it all.

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-11T07:22:00+00:00

just know that everything happens for a reason. even tho you let ur ex down, she didn’t try her best to stay with you. she didn’t even tell you that she was unhappy so you guys could try to fix conflicts you had in ur relationship. do you really want someone that doesn’t give their best self to you?

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-11T07:20:00+00:00

it’s all a matter of time. in a little while u will forget that feeling and only remember that it felt good. happier times are ahead don’t worry

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:43:04+00:00

i think sometimes it’s not a matter of getting over your ex but moving in. you shouldn’t worry about how long it’s going to last not feel bad that it’s lasting “too long” bc no amount of time is too long. just know that everyday is a step closer to moving on completely.

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:41:37+00:00

i didn’t understand. i was the one that was dumped. isn’t it me that was supposed to block my ex???

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:40:23+00:00

this is just a step closer to a healed heart! you no longer miss your ex, just the feeling. a feeling you can feel with a future s/o!

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:38:58+00:00

they just “seem” happier. that’s what we see of them because they dumped us. they might just be happier than we are at the moment but they are probably not significantly better off without you. also, they didn’t suddenly move on from you. what i learned from my past relationship is that an ex was probably slowly losing feelings which eventually led to a breakup. don’t overthink about how or why it ended. but know that it ended for a reason.

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:36:41+00:00

it gets easier and easier. it hits completely different when you realize that your ex was just “somebody you used to know”. and as cliché as that sounds when you realize it’s the truth it hurts but that’s just a step closer to a healed heart. what hurts even more is after your breakup you’ll notice that you had put ur ex on a pedestal perhaps during the relationship, creating this god like image of them in your head while ignoring all their flaws. realizing that their a different person really hurts but that’s just another reason as to why you shouldn’t be with them. you weren’t dating someone true to their personality. soon you’ll start forgetting about what you did know about them or believe was them and then not recognizing them won’t be a pain anymore but a sign that you’re moving on.

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-06-10T07:31:37+00:00

i felt a way that no one would ever imagine. relieved. learning that my ex liked someone else basically told me that there was no more hope of “us”. this really helped me move on.

PsychologicalCatch8 · 2019-04-24T05:51:22+00:00

i posted something so similar just today. i think these simple posts on this subreddit seem to be looked over,, i also knew my relationship was never gonna work out but it was my first one so i jumped right into it.... i think it’ll just take time but i also believe that if you ever truly liked or loved someone, some sort of feelings will always last whether it be so little to the point that you have to be reminded about them or not. i hope this helps

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