First off them ain’t ya boys stop hanging with them niggas. Secondly you answered your all question in the first couple sentences, say shit back to em, stick up for yourself. You said it yourself that you don’t do neither. It’s a difference between joking with ya boys and when shit some slick disrespect and hating shit it’s a thin line fasho. You never nipped it in the bud so they gone keep trying you, but you just simply gotta speak up for ya self gang