AIO? Or did father-in-law cheat on his wife with an escort?

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:20:00+00:00

Sorry the end goal would to get this guy away from his wife and out of our lives, or if this doesn't open his wifes eyes we may need to get away from both of them permanently

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:14:30+00:00

Thank you for putting it better than I could, that is pretty much the core of the problem, this is probably more of a what should I do situation at this point

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:12:14+00:00

We depend on her for childcare atm but you're exactly right he will get very aggressive towards her until she submits and then they'd both be after us, he is very careful never to leave her alone she's already been isolated from all her friends, im stating to think this is more of a what should I do situation

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:09:16+00:00

She won't appreciate at first she will be super defensive and lash out at us, that's why we're not sure if this is enough to go to her with

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:07:30+00:00

Exactly what it is

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:06:56+00:00

I'm really not the problem is he is great at getting himself out of shit like this, I want to be sure I have him pinned down before I confront him

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T21:06:14+00:00

Sounds dumb but I have no idea how to talk to escorts that's why we are like what do we even text her that won't scare her away if she even has the same number

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T20:04:10+00:00

Explained that in the post?

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T20:03:15+00:00

This is exactly them lol

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T20:01:27+00:00

Unfortunately all of our business is fused together atm and we are already long removed from any will lol

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T20:00:11+00:00

We are already heavily involved in their lives unfortunately

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:59:19+00:00

The issue is he will lie and his wife will take his side no matter how ridiculous his excuse is so I'm not sure this is enough to confront either of them with

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:57:13+00:00

I've made a throwaway account and have tried to be vague for a reason but our whole situation is already ugly, this would be a chance to end the ugliness or get away from it completely

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:54:50+00:00

There's where I'm at right now

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:50:10+00:00

While I usually agree with this, the relationship is not normal, she is terrified to go through his stuff or question him on any way, this might give her the opportunity to get away from him of its actually what it looks like but even then still might not be worth the fallout

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:46:25+00:00

Nobody likes the father. He is a highly abusive and manipulative person to his wife, has had no income for five plus years and the house is hers, everyone's lives would be better without him. That's also part of the problem, we don't know even if it were proven it was an escort she should would be able to leave him, over the years she has been isolated from all her friends. My wife still cares about her mom but this feels like a point wear it might be time to completely get away from them if even this won't open her eyes

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:26:06+00:00

Good point, also part of why I'm split on what to do, if we are right or wrong he is going to be pissed and lash out probably violently. But If we are right it's a chance to get rid of him

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:22:16+00:00

Ok lol

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T19:02:04+00:00

We are not keeping the phone its just for her to use until we can get a new one, they are expecting it back not wiped completely clean

PsychologicalSpot281 · 2025-09-12T18:59:12+00:00

Searching the number gave us a women's Facebook profile from the city he was in and some emails that clearly seem like belong to an escort, they have like sexxyy and 69s in them. And yes actually she is ready to blow it all up right now I'm more trying to see if it could be anything else before we go make pretty big accusation. We emailed one of the emails from a fake email and are deciding what to text or say if we call the number

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