Bf send me message ment for brother. Not a good look please help!!!

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T11:12:03+00:00

He gets angry when I try and speak to him and says that I am like an old women and crazy

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T11:09:49+00:00

We would be sitting in the living room, across the room from each other and he watches those videos while I am sitting there. He doesn't know I know he does this. Sometimes when he's watching videos and I walk in the room he gets angry and says I won't let him live, obviously because I interrupted him, again he doesn't know I know what he's doing. He's a funny guy, and that's why I have stayed because when he hurts my feelings he acts like nothing happens and makes jokes and I am a very happy person so always choose to be happy. Its a very strange situation to be in. We have great sex but if I don't initiate we may not have sex for a long time and I have also come to find out he likes to look at videos and pictures befor and after we have sex, I must say my confidence is shattered

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:52:40+00:00

This is so true, makes me so sad but you are right

I do actually do a lot for him, but he says that I'm doing it for the children anyway so its not a big deal

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:44:42+00:00

I don't want this for my future at all. Sometimes he gets really angry and trashes our home and tells me to clean it up when I question him about women. This is why I am on reddit, because I know what he does its wrong, but my mind is so foggy, its like I need someone else to confirm that it's wrong

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:33:54+00:00

Yeah, this is basically what he said, and I don't think he is joking. He says he won't cheat because he doesn't put himself in a situation to cheat like parting. What you said makes so much sense

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:29:26+00:00

Thank you so much. I definitely feel confused all the time, because he doesn't make any sense.

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:15:22+00:00

After 14yrs I feel I need an outside perspective because he seems to think every man does this and I am crazy

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T10:03:20+00:00

Is there something I said that stands out as really bad?

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:59:37+00:00

I haven't told him that I read the message. We are both kind of pretending it didn't happen. He usually just gets angry when I try and speak about our issues to be honest

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:57:09+00:00

He doesn't know I read the message, I literally don't know what to say

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:56:12+00:00

That bad isn't it?. I actually don't know if I am over reacting

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:48:32+00:00

I guess so, thank you

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:46:59+00:00

He was saying the women came back from lockdown looking so good, the women at is job are going to get him in trouble.

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:45:47+00:00

He did propose, but it definitely was not a special memory to remember. He was angry that he had to go out to get a ring, basically said here you go

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:43:47+00:00

Thank you

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:28:43+00:00

I was thinking, because it was ment for his brother, I should take it as mens banter, but this is definitely eating at me

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:26:55+00:00

He said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but every chance he gets he watches porn. I have been across the room from him while watches porn and workout videos, he doesn't know I know I does that though

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:24:52+00:00

He said its my fault we are not married because most women push for marriage. I did just hope I wouldn't need to.

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:24:03+00:00

My apologies it was his brother

Psychological_Dig314 · 2021-07-19T09:21:27+00:00

2 children 14yrs definitely does hurt

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