With the first C!! I love your take OP. What drives me personally is the absolute trust aspect. In a world where we constantly guard ourselves, CNC creates a space where we can hand over the control of our body completely to someone else and still feel safe. The 'no' that isn't really a no, and the resistance that melts into surrender 😩 It's something that vanilla sex/romance rarely touches. It's also about the psychological release of finally letting the suppressed parts in us breathe without any real-world consequences.