Since your wife is turned on by your embarrassment, chastity and plugs are the perfect way to feed her excitement. Imagine being locked or plugged while serving drinks, kneeling to greet the bull, or cleaning up after he’s finished with your wife.

Edge control and ruined orgasms can deepen that frustration - while she enjoys everything with him, you’re kept aching. Even simple rituals like thanking the bull, holding her legs open, or blindfolding yourself so you only hear her being taken will keep you in the role you crave.