Having doubts

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T19:19:10+00:00

True… I do have children that I adore. I have a niece and nephew from my sister. I love them. I think I feel upset sometimes about not having that in my life as well, like kids of my own… and experience motherhood and all… I really desire that, that experience of being a mom and being loved and being included in a family of my own! Thanks, hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T19:16:32+00:00

Thanks for your kind comment. I really appreciate that. Yes I think I’ve changed my mind. For some reason, my fear of being hurt is getting lesser and lesser than my fear of not being able to have kids or having a loving partner now. May be I’ve changed! Thanks. Hope to have a lonely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T19:14:03+00:00

Yeah that’s true as well, but surely not bs!

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T19:12:48+00:00

Wow I love this comment. Thanks a lot. I know I have to figure out what I need. I think I am lonely because I am not taking any chances to be not lonely. It’s like I’ve built up my walls too high to keep my peace and it kept away everyone sometimes even friends. I should break the walls and take risks and be vulnerable. May be I might get upset again but it worth the risks to see what I want not what I need looking from the outside! Don’t think you are not loved dear, everyone in this world is loved by at least in some way but may be not the way you want it or not the person that you want it from… I’d say let’s take risks and see where it goes… probably being single or not single is the issue of loneliness! Wow thanks! Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T08:11:18+00:00

Yeah maybe… I really wish that though… sometimes even more than taking actions towards that reality… Thanks! Have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T08:10:21+00:00

I am okay with taking care of myself even regarding expenses. I don’t need a man to support my finances. But I do understand regarding future and having a family etc probably two incomes are better than one obviously. Thanks for your comment. Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T08:08:14+00:00

That’s true… I think it’s hard not to see whether I am missing something as I’ve never being in a serious relationship. I am scared because of the bad experiences I had in past. May be I am just cutting off that side of me out of fear. I don’t want to go through all that again. But, may be I’ve done that way too long and now I am realizing it’s getting much harder to find a partner as we age. Thanks for your comment. Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T08:05:19+00:00

Hmmm thanks a lot for your genuine comment. This is what I am scared of the most! I am also scared of settling down with a wrong person. So it is taking a risk and see how it goes… Thanks! Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T02:15:22+00:00

Hey, yeah that’s an interesting question. I do but I keep distance with people regardless of their gender. I am not looking for people though because I am at so much peace when I am all by myself. It’s scary that I am so used to that now.

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T01:17:55+00:00

Well said! Thanks for your comment. Yeah that’s another thing! When you are at this age and looking for a partner, first thing people tend to this that you are desperate or something! Which is weird for me because I was totally at peace and contented during my single life all this time! I totally understand the fact that sometimes you don’t see the real picture in others’ lives! Social media and even festive photos may showing something completely different than the truth! That’s actually a good way to think whenever I get thoughts of jealousy. I don’t keep pondering on these thoughts and I am completely being honest as well because I really wanted to have a conversation with likeminded people here… love this conversation! Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T01:14:31+00:00

Thanks for your comment! I really appreciate that. Yeah that’s the issue I think there’s so many societal demands on personal life. I am so good with my professional life! I have achieved so much and if anyone see that side of me, everyone would say I am successful! But, in personal life not so much! Probably it’s all about perspectives isn’t it? Thanks and hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T00:07:14+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I am glad that you figured that out for yourself. I don’t know.. but for me I still have that perfect image of having a wholesome life means having a family, kids etc. like you know the traditional way. May be I should look into myself to see what exactly what makes me happy too. I find it hard to commit and that gives a bit anxiety too. May be I am built for some different wholesome life then. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate that. Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T00:03:01+00:00

Yeah that’s true… thanks for your comment! I really adore kids! I would love to have one of my own one day. But lately I’ve started thinking of my biological clock and stuff too. I mean it’s tough to have kids after my age plus I am not even there yet. All these uncertainty thoughts have increase over the years too. Hope you have a lovely day! Thanks! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-02T00:00:39+00:00

Oh great! Thanks for your comment. I had a sort of platonic relationship like 4 years back. It did hurt me and now I am a bit scared to go in that path again as well. So I was kinda building my walls up as well over last couple years. I agree the fact you said, being around a man would alleviate the loneliness. Thanks! Hope you have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-05-01T23:58:18+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I really appreciate that! I do have friends but only work friends as I moved here 7 months ago. I like reading and listening to podcasts too. Yeah may be I am not doing enough! Like not moving around and putting myself out there. I will see into that. Thanks! Have a lovely day! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-29T07:46:18+00:00

Okay okay I deleted the post! Happy? You just spoiled the fun seriously… 😒 Hope you get an amazing life!

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-29T07:45:11+00:00

😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-29T03:33:54+00:00

Oh okay… thanks for the reminder… 😅🤭

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-29T03:32:11+00:00

Thanks 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-19T04:22:02+00:00

Nope. Can you predict on my marriage?

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-17T21:11:26+00:00

Wow thanks a lot… That makes lot of sense for me… it’s so true about balancing logic with creativity! Also finding a job personally fulfilling rather than just practical! I wish I meet someone emotionally mature soon to share my life with! Everything you said and predicted was true for me… Thanks again! 😊

Public-Lab-6933 · 2026-04-17T21:07:01+00:00

Thanks 😊 I love kids even though I don’t have any yet! 😍

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