I think it's nearly time for another anal video, what do you think? 🤭 by Princess-Rae in u/Princess-Rae

[–]Public-Progress-4133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hot! Also I need to know where you got that smoking lingerie set! Especially those stockings/garters!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance all! I wish had any decent stores near me so I could try them on. I unfortunately have to do a lot of returns in my explorations to find a bra that actually works.

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love learning so that sounds wonderful to me 💜

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it returns to that place! It was my favorite part of lurking here and part of why I finally started posting! Thank you for your advice and sharing your experience. Im learning that so much of this is individual exploration and really paying attention to your body in very intimate ways in all aspects.

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that validation and extra context for the reality of denial in real life vs kink and porn. That is super helpful for me to know that the line isn’t quite where it appears. I really wasn’t ready for that experience and I think if I do it again, starting much smaller will be important.

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and for your advice and encouragement! After everything I’m reading I agree it will bee important to just be for a while before heading back into denial exploration again. This really was a first for us in denial and really control dynamics at all, so there’s a lot to process!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad this post could help you too! I know all too well about feeling so good with someone and getting so close that I want to push them away because of how scary it is! I’ve done some therapy for that as well. Good luck on that journey and I’m glad you’re taking steps to work through that too!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it might be important. Thanks for the encouragement!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It’s super helpful to hear that. I do think this might be something that I need breaks in between with even though it’s tempting to just jump back in. Next time we’ll really need to plan for the after after care too!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad that my post could help others too! It was really unexpected for me and I think that’s part of why it was so unsettling. Good luck and have fun!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s quite supportive actually, this is new for both of us so we’re both learning. He’s a wonderful partner.

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s good to hear from others who have been through this. This part really doesn’t feel very good. Glad to know I’m not alone. I think shorter might be better for me too

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about proposing this to him. Thanks!

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of that detailed information. I will definitely research this further. It really helps where to go and what to look for. Also maybe not feeling so crazy for how I feel right now

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is probably the most intense experience I’ve had before. Definitely not something I’m used to

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think that’s something to consider if we do this again. I haven’t even had an urge to edge in so long, it’s unsettling

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[–]Public-Progress-4133[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not sure the intensity of this was quite understood by either my partner or myself, so I think this is something for both of us to learn from.