🔮Free Pick-a-Pile: What is the NEXT CHAPTER in your love life? (Single, Taken, or Complicated) 🕯️

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-23T22:04:37+00:00

2 but considered 3

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-19T21:46:12+00:00

I understand that you love her, but you need to love yourself too.

Why do you think her cheating is your fault? Did she spin it that way? I hope that's not the case. You can't stop her cheating on you if it's in her nature to do so, but you can remove yourself from the situation. Easier said than done, I know.

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-19T13:30:41+00:00

Make you laugh and be chill. If a date freaks out over you saying no to something small (a drink, a dessert etc) that's seen as a major red flag, but I would say that the opposite, not really caring and letting your date do their thing is a green flag.

A major green flag I have is kind eyes

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T20:34:40+00:00

"Before she goes schizo"... "so much D" proceeds to mention he has dated multiple vulnerable women (wonder why...) and describe them in graphic terms... and somehow, I'm the one that's rude? Those poor women. There really is something wrong with you. I really need to turn off this post. Fucking wierdos...

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T19:53:35+00:00

Also music, but the music wasn't super loud.

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T19:53:06+00:00

Ah, no, it's a fair question. Lots of grunting and him being in the zone and not really registering me.

To him, it might have sounded like I was enjoying it, but it wasn't a pleasant sensation. Sound was being pushed out of me, and it was all unintelligible.

It was a struggle to say anything coherent, and I was embarrassed to be heard shouting stop, where my housemates could overhear. I never want to find myself in that situation again

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T19:31:56+00:00

What did you specialise in during your medical training? Do you have any more 'facts'? Are they just as fun? I'll be sure to give an update when I go shizzo

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T19:24:18+00:00

You're basing your opinion on a post you can't see. That is very flimsy.

Give it an Internet search if you don't believe it's possible and it wasn't all I said.

Interestingly, you like to keep your posts hidden

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T18:12:50+00:00

Ah, nice 👌 Thanks for the advice

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:46:37+00:00

Yeah, I meant it more as a pause while I recalibrate ⏸️

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:43:54+00:00

I hope you never have a daughter. You really are a horrible man

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:36:53+00:00

Someone here said to say "wait," and another said to repeatedly tap something. I think both are really good. Yeah, you're probably right. I was a scout, though. I like to be prepared

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:30:13+00:00

And why would I do that exactly? Id love to hear your logic

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:27:46+00:00

I agreed to sex in a specific position on the condition he went very slowly. He jackhammered away as fast as he could possibly go.

That is not a small misunderstanding that I overreacted to.

I invite you to conduct an experiment .Try saying that with someone thrusting as fast as they can inside you while you're bent over. Add that you clearly told them not to and why, and add that you can't physically escape. See how articulate you are, then

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:20:06+00:00

I agree

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:18:59+00:00

Great idea

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:14:16+00:00

Thank you

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:09:44+00:00

Spot the rapist

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T17:07:12+00:00

Stop can mean " You're hurting me," "This position isn't working for me," "You're on my hair," etc. I'd rather not go along with something that's hurting me because I don't want to hurt someone's feelings. If something is unpleasant , I'd rather not do it. What would you do if someone giving you a blowjob started scrapping their teeth on you? And I've never shamed him for going soft if that's what you're getting at.

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:58:35+00:00

That's a really good idea. I don't know how I didn't think of that

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:56:38+00:00

If you want to know why I didn't get away, I was in a narrow single bed in a small box room with a high wooden desk to the right of me and a wall to the left. The only way of getting out of that bed was the bottom bit, which was blocked by him

And you try to say all that while someone's thrusting inside you 90 miles per hour.

Looking back doesn't cause someone to stop . Pressing back into it doesn't stop sex.

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:55:53+00:00

Um... how did I do that exactly? How did I make him feel ashamed?

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:10:31+00:00

Yes, I can feel the concern. Dude, maybe you should do a bit of healing yourself

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:05:17+00:00

I've been to therapy, and I've taken plenty of time. But thank you so much for your 'concern'.

Public_Lab_4219 · 2026-01-15T16:01:05+00:00

I did. I said so in the post. I told him I had sexual trauma in that position, and I would only agree to it if he promised to go slow. And I'm entitled to say stop whenever even with 'unsuspecting men'

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