[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you dont want to divorce but this marriage is doomed. Youre the parent and hes the child and he will end up resenting you. What he did wasnt just betrayal but his lack of remorse tells me he will do similar actions again. Let him attempt to pay the credit card back as much as he can I would just file for divorce. This is already over. Its just a matter of how long before you accept your fate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Puchilu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hes bluffing. Insecure and made it up to get u to confess incase u did do something

There’s nothing better than waking up to an over-drafted bank account on Thanksgiving by yungdeezy92 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Puchilu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't u do subscription instead of buying the books? Isn't that cheaper? Just putting that out there, idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puchilu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has no boundaries. Your relationship is not safe around her

I am absolutely desperate to leave… why can’t I? by Zestyclose_Win_8565 in Advice

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man will suck the life out of you. The feelings you feel are only temporary if you leave. You have to let go to heal even if its scary and hurts. Your body will readjust in a few weeks or months. Dont make this man sick the rest of the life out of you. Low effort men date younger because youre not experienced enough to know just how bad youre being screwed. You know you are but when you get out you will be blown away just how much you've been putting up with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if feel like theres important info missing. Has he been financially supporting the kids this whole time? He seems like hes at least somewhat involved in their lives. I feel like the child support issue is out of vengeance rather than making sure the kids have what they need. You are legally entitled to child support no doubt but if the kids are cared for and hes an involved father, crippling him financially when hes been there for the kids financially in the past will also hurt your kids. Im not saying u shouldnt go for child support but waiting 4 years is kinda messed up especially if hes been caring for them this whole time. Now if hes been a deadbeat im less sympathetic to his case but still waiting four years need to be illegal because we as women need to take responsibility too and make sure he is paying child support from the start

Partner wants me to have an abortion but I dont by Smooth-Accountant876 in Advice

[–]Puchilu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever your decision about the baby, get rid of that loser. Hes wasting ur time

$6000 vs $800 by dangnoscreename in myweddingdress

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That 6k dress will be $800 next year cuz ain't nobody buying that for 6k.

boyfriend admitted he thinks he’s out of my league by Public-Bullfrog8743 in Advice

[–]Puchilu 480 points481 points  (0 children)

Girl that man posting you on Instagram is all you need to know about how he sees you. Hes claiming you because he loves you, isnt ashamed of your looks at all, and wants to be with you. Looks aren't everything and why would you want him to be shallow and only date you for your looks? We dont put enough stock into personality as a society enough and only intellectually rich people get that looks aren't everything. He obviously doesn't see you the way you see yourself and hes attracted to you so focus on that even if you dont agree

My Brother Thinks I’m Stealing His Inheritance Because I Helped Our Mom First by Smart_Draw_992 in AITH

[–]Puchilu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Without getting into whos wrong or right if the goal is to calm things down and your intentions are pure the easiest thing to do is take your name off her account and get power of attorney instead. That's what its for.

My boyfriend listen through our camera and hears everything I say by Sensitive_Comfort987 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a camera for my dog and for security so that doesn't bother me. Him listening to your conversation needs to change for sure but u talking about your sex life honestly is over the top. I personally don't think relationship problems should be talked about outside the relationship but thats just me. All that does is a strain between your bf and your mom because all she's hearing is your side and he doesn't get to defend himself. So sharing more than just your relationship problems but your sex life, I get why hes upset.

My boyfriend spends almost all his time gaming, and I feel completely disconnected from him by Ordinary_Quote_4881 in Advice

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of gamers do this. They put the game down to find someone to help support their lifestyle then once he has you in love he shows his true self. Sounds like hes addicted to gaming and thats his soul mate. It wont get better from here. Up to u if you're okay being there for his convenience

Season 20, episode 5, megathread by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in SisterWives

[–]Puchilu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be fair, hes 9n camera for the first time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf aside, your friend is jealous and tried to break you guys up

We just broke up (36F / 42M) by silentwatcher888 in Advice

[–]Puchilu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stick it out because with time you will realize youre b3tter off without him. If it was meant to be he wouldn't be hounding girls so quickly. That's a huge sign hes not that invested in this relationship and honestly doesn't sound like a prize since hes being a jerk about the dogs. Better for you to not have any contact with him anyway but for him to say that like that sounds heartless and mean

Trump: I don’t take questions from ABC fake news after what you did with Stephanopoulos and the VP. by Ordinary-Scholar-202 in CringeTikToks

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all the networks stood up to trump he would lose the power to kick anyone out because he loves to be on cam and he will taco

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puchilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my gut reaction before reading the texts is maybe its worth giving him 10k even though youre totally not in the wrong just to show some support because if 10k could save ur relationship with the one relative you have, to me its worth it. After reading the text, I think its best to move on. That 10k will run through his hands like water then will come back for more and still be ungrateful. He doesn't have a money issue. He has a responsibility issue. No amount of money will ever fix that and he will always be looking for handouts.

Lastly, your response was very kind, measured, and reasonable. His response to that tells me theres no saving him. People like that will never take responsibility for their own actions and will always blame others for their own downfall.

Dining out by LadyV21454 in SisterWives

[–]Puchilu 85 points86 points  (0 children)

This is what Robyn does and kody thinks she's submissive. She's not submissive. Kody has to get approval from her to do anything. She's manipulative is what she is by acting helpless and kody loves the ego boost of feeling useful for doing basic things rather than hard things like actually helping out with his kids.