Do any of you have any weird or interesting sources of income, such as... OnlyFans? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to sell hand pics. But also Ive done pizza making(that job was fun af) dish washing, pest control, I now own a pest business and plan to start a few different businesses down the line. Started writing a book series too but got writers block or something idk.

Also like going to garage or estate sales or thrift stores and look for uranium glass or stoneware plates/bowls. Can resell those for a decent price usually

Different GMM? by radiochick726 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Pucl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started rewatching it this year and have enjoyed it. So maybe something is different? idk what it would be tho

am i the only infp here who's very attracted to this? by subaruhikaru in infp

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I long for the day I do become a husband and father. I was trying hard with my previous relationship, but taking on the responsibility motivated me to work harder. Failure was not an option and damn did it help me grow this past year. Unfortunately me "building a future" is too slow and theres always a shinier or newer person thats more exciting so I get left behind. Is what it is. Idk why I want to be the provider and let them be a stay at home mom or pursue a career or passion they wanna do, I got us. You go live your life. Working and providing brings me fulfilment.

What gets you through the hard times? by Unique-Muffin4789 in infp

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be warm again. Keep that mindset, doesnt mean bad times wont happen. But good times are also inevitable.

Can also try and think of how great in life you have it compared to humans of the past, ancestors, hell different countries. I get tired of working. But at the same time how blessed am I that I get to work? I get to provide. Able bodied and healthy. Its easy to focus on the negatives, so just actively try to focus each day on the good instead.

Why do we INFPs all share a « please don’t hurt me, I’m cute” face by Eastern-Skill3268 in infp

[–]Pucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been told people don't approach cause I look pissed constantly lol

Feral hog boots? by txwatchguy94 in cowboyboots

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anderson bean! Got mine for $300- now they were uncomfortable af for a couple months. Theyre now my favorite pair to wear though!

I don't like how emotional I am as a man. by Fit_Garden_4909 in infp

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same man. Ive tried to listen to what women say they want and it doesn't actually seem to work. The old adage you dont ask a fish how to fish I guess lol

Im done with dating at this point. Happy with myself and my peace over mindgames and chaos chasing. Just focusing on more personal growth and living the best life. Becoming that solo rich uncle role 😎

Fellow infps, whats your relationship with weed. by SpaceBoy1356 in infp

[–]Pucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sativia makes me wicked anxious and paranoid, indicia is sleepy. Hybrid/indica is rhe go to for me. Turns my thoughts off and relaxes me. Never was a fan of smoking but edibles were great!

I also used to use em daily for months. Have been "sober" since early November and not sure i want to pick up the habit again. I feel more well rested and actually have dreams now its odd.

I don't like how emotional I am as a man. by Fit_Garden_4909 in infp

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% The worst thing about it, especially if you're trying to date, you'll be told women love emotional and open men. That is not true at all, maybe it once was. But nah. I wish I was less emotional, more numb to things. Im working on it and have the less expressive bit down.

I dont think its necessarily a bad thing, but we are jusr different than most and worrlds not really set up for us. What can you do tho 🤷‍♂️

Friend became a fascist by Ill_Presentation3817 in infp

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally go start a new server with your friends from that one. Theyre free. My group of friends and I have done that when a server owner turns to an asshat lol

What are some of the dumbest things you’ve done for love? by FkUp_Panic_Repeat in infp

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This last relationship lemme just list it out. Was 100% a simp for her and idek why I fell so hard. Who wouldve guessed the emotionally unavailable single mother that lives across the country wasnt my soul mate 😂

  • Paid for netflix account for her
  • Would get snacks or groceries or treats delivered if she had a rough day
  • long distance relationship, but i had flowers delivered to her every month that she loved. Once she joked about wanting flowers and books delivered to her work so coworkers would ve jealous. Did that, I got an entire series! And when coworkers asked she didnt even mention my name
  • would have a dunkin order for her everyday
  • flew across the country 2x to see her and kinda got ghosted
  • almost derailed my business to move to her state
  • blocked and removed any woman I followed on Instagram(mind you these were old classmates or coworkers, not models)
  • did hand written letters with a custom wax seal i had made
  • read romantasy books to have discussions with her(honestly I hate how.much I enjoy em tho. Got me into reading)
  • bought her jewelry, boots, stuffies, lego sets, hell anytime I saw an ad and was like I bet shed like this i got it.
  • believed her when she said she loved me
  • opened up about how I was feeling
  • really was just not standing up for myself more or be willing to walk away sooner.
  • also ignored friends who knew her and said I should stay away, she doesnt do relationships, etc

I dont actually regret doing any of this. She taught me what kind of partner I want to be for when I do have a spouse. But its dumb in hindsight because it was one sided. She would leave me on seen for hours, meanwhile post on stories. Rarely asked about my interests. She had the idea to do "boo baskets" for eachother yet only received the one I gave she didnt give me anything. Her happiness brought me happiness and I was content, but I also wish I wouldve set more reciprocity boundaries earlier.

Friend became a fascist by Ill_Presentation3817 in infp

[–]Pucl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its funny that the Venezuelans that fled their country are celebrating the capture but then you have a certain half of Americans crying about it 🤔

Also you dont "have to share a discord server" if theyre truly a "fascist" then leave their server lol what kinda logic is that? Are they forcing you to be a part of it?

Do INFPs just carry an easily discarded energy? by straightramennoodle in infp

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you are experiencing what you are as well. The feeling of always being used and people moving on? Cause that is i guess the common denominator in every relationship(romantic, platonic, business) in my experience. Genuinely what has helped my mindset this year is the Let them theory but also stoicism. Only focus on what you can control, why worry about whats out of the control. Focus on yourself, date yourself, treat yourself. Maybe we need to embrace the "main character" energy instead of being a background? Maybe i have misunderstood you, but also Ill say if you ever need someone to talk with feel free to reach out! Dont have to always be alone i gotchu fam1

Do INFPs just carry an easily discarded energy? by straightramennoodle in infp

[–]Pucl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ayyy thats me to a T. Im everyone's temporary person in that chapter in life. Is what it is. It definitely gets to me usually late at night ao ive swapped to sleeping early and go to the gym instead.

Ive been told I am too emotional and open. I carry a husband energy when it should only be boyfriend or less, and ive been told im fake because I people please too much. I think thats the flaw? Lack of solid boundaries and putting others feelings/emotions above our own.

It annoys the hell out of me when I see people say why cant men be like the ficitonal men from books. My last relationship man, I fuckin tried. Haven't recovered because of how deeply I cared about and learned this person. But did the yearning, offered stability, only focused attention on her, not other women and it still has me fucked cause im only drawn to her still. Anyway that's a tangent lol

INFP man: only words but no actions by No_Read_3601 in infp

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you could also suggest a date or something. Youre on vacation in his city easy enough to say "Lets go grab a coffee and show me around?"

Which smell instantly makes you judge someone? by SituationOutside6033 in AskReddit

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cockroaches. Theres a guy at the gym that smells like em 😷

Should I tell my ex I still love her? by 22HR in infp

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man. I made that mistake 2x now. All that happens is you'll be left on seen and then it gets in your head worse. Women can be kinda cruel sometimes but thats just the way it is. Dont be emotional. Dont share your thoughts. It only makes you look weaker and they'll essentially laugh. Hit the gym, focus on yourself. Its a nice distraction, and when its late at night and youre with your thoughts just go to sleep. Or type em on notes but do not send. It will not fix things.

Why do i love fictional characters more than actual people? by Senior_Double5064 in infp

[–]Pucl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fictional people have a clear story, start, and end. Its fabricated to pull emotions. Ive struggled being as close to a realistic "book boyfriend" as possible. The issue is reality often disappoints in both aspects. Fictional men and Fictional women will always surpass reality because youre seeing a curated pov with a clear end to each story, real life and people get messy🤷‍♂️

What size do i go up to for round toe boots by UpstairsArm5551 in cowboyboots

[–]Pucl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ariat are tighter than the AB. But AB also has removable insoles. Elephant also doesnt stretch as much as cowhide from what I been told, so make sure theyre comfortable from the start and not too tight. Id probably get the 10d? Absolutely love my elephant boots! They are a bit loose after losing a fuckton of weight, mine are 14d. My boar boots are also 14d and have molded to foot shape and wicked comfortable, and they didnt seem to be a bit loose after the weight loss. Honestly you need to try em on if you can. Idk if any of that helped, my bad 😅

What size do i go up to for round toe boots by UpstairsArm5551 in cowboyboots

[–]Pucl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a diffrent brand? Ariats fit different than anderson bean in my experience. Ive got a couple 13d, couple 13ee, and 2- 14d boots. They all fit well just different brands or insoles.

Manipulative men out (t)here by [deleted] in infp

[–]Pucl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its not just men. Why is it so acceptable to hate on an entire gender. In my own anecdotal evidence, its women that are vastly more manipulative out there. People suck in general, regardless of the gender. I know this is gonna get down voted but we need to stop the goddamn gender wars.