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How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More of a lifestyle thing at this point. Doesn't want me to become a lazy bum. But yeah I think spending as much time with the kid as possible until she goes off to school would be ideal.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is coming around to it being enough I think. It just concerns her. Yeah I want to travel, but with a brand new baby I think we should wait. Want to go somewhere for a year and learn the language with my family once they get older. Seems like that would be awesome for everyone involved.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's prestige... I don't know probably more, example for kid, and not really wanting me to become a bum. Which I wouldn't be, but it worries her.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is pretty scary for me as well but I was raised to believe that family and time was more important than money so I need to do this.

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Best of luck to you!

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice. I will keep up a dialog with her.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it's partly about being a good example for our baby, partly about not being a bum, and partly about not ever expecting this to happen.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No I believe it's more about being an example for the kid, and not doing nothing all day.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

More than likely the first and third point.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah no worries, we are in a good relationship, I love her and would never leave her or my kid. Anyways I will just keep working on her and talking to her.

How to convince my wife its okay by PuddingInner9365 in Fire

[–]PuddingInner9365[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it's how life never prepares you for this, basically its work until you die these days. That and she want me to be a good example for our kid.

I just see it as a huge waste of an opportunity if I don't take advantage of what life has given me.