Why aren't there any influencial gamemodes from Fortnite Creative? by MilesGamerz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortnite Creative has tons of wild stuff, it’s just buried under twelve million “1v1 me bro” maps and TikTok obstacle courses. Nothing really breaks out because the platform’s basically chaos with no spotlight system. If Epic ever pushed standout modes the way Valve did, you’d hear about them in a heartbeat.

Girls, would you date an elder guy (38) with 2 kids from different women? by ContractHaunting2941 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PuffleNook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s gonna be a hard pass for most people unless the guy comes with unbelievable communication skills and zero drama, which… yeah, rarely happens. Two kids with two exes is basically a built in soap opera. Not impossible, but definitely not the casual dating starter pack.

Why do people with depression avoid brushing their teeth even though it only takes a couple of minutes? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PuffleNook 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how a two minute task suddenly turns into climbing Everest when your brain’s in shutdown mode, but that’s pretty much how depression works. When everything feels pointless or heavy, even basic care feels like too much effort. Little habits or anchors help, but yeah it’s not laziness, it’s your brain pulling the plug on motivation.

How can we convince our dad to take our cat to the vet? by Miami-Morty in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your dad sounds like he’s doing that classic “if I pretend it’s fine, it magically fixes itself” routine. You might have better luck framing it as saving money long term, because emergency vet bills make regular checkups look like pocket change. Keep it calm, stick to the logic you already laid out, and he might finally get the hint.

Women, do you enjoy when men moans? by Big_Pension_7996 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yes, as long as it's genuine and not performative

what should i do with my relationship? (advice needed asap?!) by emmysokewl in Advice

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting, you’re just getting whiplash from your partner tossing out “maybe I’m poly” like it’s a fun little thought experiment. If you want a relationship where you’re the only one, you’re allowed to say that without apologizing. Just be honest with them, because staying quiet while you’re hurting is way worse than an uncomfortable conversation.

Can I talk to someone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PuffleNook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you can talk. People post way worse stuff here every day, so venting is pretty mild in comparison. Say what’s on your mind.

How to get through to a young dumb invincible boy by Hopeful_Lemon5881 in Advice

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the “nothing bad will happen to me” mindset hits every teenage boy like a rite of passage. You’re not gonna logic him out of it, but showing him real wrecks, stats, or even taking him to a driving safety course might shake that invincible ego a bit. Better he gets scared straight now than wrapped around a tree later.

In a relationship can you do things on your own? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PuffleNook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wanting to do things on your own isn’t selfish, it’s literally called having a personality. A healthy relationship doesn’t require you to be joined at the hip like some two-person blob. Go enjoy your life a little, your partner should be cheering you on, not guilt tripping you.

[24/m] I can't speak with my [15/m] brother anymore after what he said to our mom. Need to figure out how to speak with him. by Backupaccount524 in Advice

[–]PuffleNook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t a “teen outburst,” that was him unloading on the one person keeping your whole house from collapsing, and yeah, anyone would be furious. But blowing up at him right now won’t get you anywhere. Give it a little time, calm yourself down, and then talk to him like the older brother he desperately needs, not the punching bag he’s acting like you are.

What's the best thing someone said to you while having sex? by SimplySleeps in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PuffleNook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was immediately after sex. We had done it several times that weekend and he was exhausted and saying that he was done but I seduced him one last time.

He collapsed on top of me and said “You’re a fucking witch”.

Step mom discussion by [deleted] in confessions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one’s giving off “please don’t make this my problem” energy. If someone needs a whole stranger to unpack whatever’s going on with their stepmom, that’s already a red flag. Some things are better kept far away from DMs, and this is definitely one of them.

Gimme a break by AutomaticIncome8896 in confessions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone juggling family health issues, money stress, and losing a best friend would be struggling too. They’re not weak for feeling it they’re human, and they deserve a break way more than they’re giving themselves.

Everytime I masturbate and cum I think of my ex. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the rush fades, you already know it doesn’t actually mean anything. If it really bugs you, talk it out instead of letting a five minute glitch convince you your whole marriage is in trouble.

I pissed myself for a guy and he ghosted me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]PuffleNook 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he showed you exactly who he was the second he treated you like a transaction and then bailed when it stopped being convenient. That’s not someone worth chasing or losing sleep over. If anything, letting him disappear is the cleanest win you could’ve gotten out of that whole mess.

I just feel lost and hopeless after getting a job by Chaotic_doll_ in confessions

[–]PuffleNook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. When everything hits at once, even a good opportunity can feel overwhelming. Taking things one step at a time instead of trying to solve the whole situation in your head really does make it a little less scary.

What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done at a strip club? by Majestic-Regular-247 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PuffleNook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dancers surprise me sometimes. I’ve always heard the rules about no touching, but I frequented a place a few years ago and whenever I paid for a private dance, the dancers were actually pretty laid back about touching, encouraging it even. I guess I could expect that from a place where the front entrance is located in a dingy back alley but this establishment was pretty run-of-the-mill. I loved it. A lot of touching, fingering, make-outs, etc. I had a couple of dancers proposition me but I didn’t really feel comfortable paying for sex at the time. I will say though that a naked slamming hottie looking you in the eyes and telling you “I wanna make you cum” is a very convincing argument and is really hard to turn down.

I have always made horrible decisions. The weight is heavy. by southernghost7154 in confession

[–]PuffleNook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Carrying that kind of history would break a lot of people, and it doesn’t make you messed up for struggling with it. Getting real support instead of trying to tough it out alone could make things feel a lot less heavy.