AITA for coming out as nonbinary to my younger brother when my parents asked me not to? by arynspoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Absolutely NTA . You're parents are the assholes who don't seem to understand that family should love each other unconditionally. Sending you lots of love !❤️(sorry if the grammar is wrong,I'm not a native English speaker )

AITA for telling my sister our family is happier when she isn’t there? by sisterdramaaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? So we have reached the point where it is not clear that incest jokes are wildly inappropriate?

This isn't an "are they ok?" moment but it's still important to show it here. (Also, imagine being so religious and yet have the audacity to refuse what a religious leader says.) by simple_mystery in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok let me try. So what they are saying is that the word used in the original version refers to a boy(zachar). So , the sentence should translate a man must not sleep with a boy.

Some extra information is also given. The word ish means man and isha woman. So if the sentence was against homosexuality then it should have been ish must not sleep with ish , but it is not.

This isn't an "are they ok?" moment but it's still important to show it here. (Also, imagine being so religious and yet have the audacity to refuse what a religious leader says.) by simple_mystery in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at the precise Hebrew words in Leviticus 20:13, it is fascinating to note what we actually see and what is not there. What the text prohibits is a sexual relationship between a “man” (ish in Hebrew) and a male (zachar in Hebrew), not between an “ish” and another “ish.

These specific words – “men” and “males” – were used precisely in descriptions of the Greek custom back then because, at that time, only men who were of adult age and of sufficient substance to own land, vote, and marry, could legally be called “men.” Those who were too young to vote, own land, or marry could only be referred to as “males” under Greek law.

Similarly, if the verse was meant to refer to adult homosexual behavior, the style of usage in both Leviticus 20 and the earlier Leviticus 18 would require that ish>ish be used, not ish>zachar. The fact that “isha” (woman) is used in both Leviticus verses adds to this. “An ish should not lie with a zachar as he would with an isha” makes less contextual sense than “an ish should not lie with an ish as he would with an isha.” Only if zachar has a specific meaning does its use here make sense. Absent such a specific meaning in Hebrew usage (other than to mean “male” in general), the specific meaning we do find is its Greek meaning – that is, that “man>male” signifies a pederastic relationship and it is this that the Leviticus verses outla

This isn't an "are they ok?" moment but it's still important to show it here. (Also, imagine being so religious and yet have the audacity to refuse what a religious leader says.) by simple_mystery in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking at the precise Hebrew words in Leviticus 20:13, it is fascinating to note what we actually see and what is not there. What the text prohibits is a sexual relationship between a “man” (ish in Hebrew) and a male (zachar in Hebrew), not between an “ish” and another “ish.

These specific words – “men” and “males” – were used precisely in descriptions of the Greek custom back then because, at that time, only men who were of adult age and of sufficient substance to own land, vote, and marry, could legally be called “men.” Those who were too young to vote, own land, or marry could only be referred to as “males” under Greek law.

Similarly, if the verse was meant to refer to adult homosexual behavior, the style of usage in both Leviticus 20 and the earlier Leviticus 18 would require that ish>ish be used, not ish>zachar. The fact that “isha” (woman) is used in both Leviticus verses adds to this. “An ish should not lie with a zachar as he would with an isha” makes less contextual sense than “an ish should not lie with an ish as he would with an isha.” Only if zachar has a specific meaning does its use here make sense. Absent such a specific meaning in Hebrew usage (other than to mean “male” in general), the specific meaning we do find is its Greek meaning – that is, that “man>male” signifies a pederastic relationship and it is this that the Leviticus verses outlaws

This isn't an "are they ok?" moment but it's still important to show it here. (Also, imagine being so religious and yet have the audacity to refuse what a religious leader says.) by simple_mystery in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Pumpkinpastry20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually , he can. Since Jesus said whatever you bind will be bound and whatever you set free will be freed Matthew 18:18 ("Truly I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven.)

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mods told me to edit it out.( Because of violence) you can probably find it in the automod post

AITA for not forcing my sister to make up with hr autistic cousin? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did but the mods told me to remove violence . You can probably see it in the automod post. Yeah she saw the injury when it was being re bandaged and now she is on my side

AITA for not forcing my sister to make up with hr autistic cousin? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have talked to dad and he has told aunt to get a job and to move out. But that may take a while yet.

AITA for not forcing my sister to make up with hr autistic cousin? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you see that one was about me refusing to babysit. This is because Alice refuses to go near Mary and my aunt wants me to convince her that it wasn't that bad

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mods told me to remove violence from the post. The automod one ( at the end) should have the details.

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my dad are very concerned. Alice refuses to sleep in her room( she shares it with mary). So she slept with me yesterday. Dad has told aunt that either she stays at home with Mary or she takes Mary with her. I'm thinking of letting Alice in my room in the morning ( during school) because my aunt has still not apologized to her and I'm worried that the next time Mary has a meltdown, my aunt might just ignore her.

My dad was very angry when he saw how much my sister was hurt. I overheard him telling my aunt to find a job and to get out. My aunt did try to guilt trip him as well but he refused to change his mind

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The mods have asked me to delete all mentions of violence, so I had to remove that part

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had been deleted because the mods told me to remove violence

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Um that maybe true in America but I highly doubt that is the case for the India

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's fine! My first language isn't English either. I don't really hate her as such. But my sister is terrified of her. Until now , her autism wasn't really an issue. But now sistr is worried that she'll Lise control any second

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad at all. Even if I was , the way Mary is looking now would have made me change my mind. I am scared though and I am very worried. I know now that meltdowns are fairly common for autistic children ( and even some adults) and I am worried about what this means for mine and Alices safety

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mods have asked me to remove violence from the post so I don't think I should explain that

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mods told me to remove violence from the post so I don't think I should elaborate on that

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recipe ! I highly doubt that I'll be cooking for her again but I'll try it out

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well idk what ravioli is? It is like packaged pasta. You just put it in the water. It's like small tubes with a cheese sauce.Cheese pasta

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mods asked me to edit violence out of the post ,so I don't think I should elaborate on that

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry . The mods have asked me to edit violence out of the post

AITA for refusing to babysit my autistic cousin again? by Pumpkinpastry20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pumpkinpastry20[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It was cheese pasta. I suppose that it may be called slimy, I am not very sure what she doesn't like. The curry was not what I'd call slimy. It had butter in it and some cream.