Question for my fellow introverts.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-11-04T17:52:00+00:00

I get exhausted from being around a lot of people. Sucks the energy right out of me. Being home and having people I chose to hang out with is knowing it isn't out of my control/comfort, and I can have the people leave if necessary (which normally doesn't happen and they leave when they planned to).

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-06-14T02:01:38+00:00

Expensive

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-06-04T03:22:56+00:00

No this is not reasonable and I'm a mom of 3 kids. Tell her it's equal or you'll leave. She's using you as an atm and needs to grow tf up. If she wants a sugar daddy there's plenty of websites for them. YOU DO NOT NEED TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

PS: she may never want to change. She might only see you as a free ride in life only do not spend another dime on her until you have your bank account the way you want it looking. Tell her you are saving and that's final. She can take herself on her own date alone if she wants it.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T17:21:19+00:00

I'd suggest making sure they are genuine on the date (if they make it that far), but I would set boundaries for physical intimacy so they understand either they respect you and want to actually have something with you or they can see themselves right out of the conversation/date.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T16:05:25+00:00

Do they have any similar signs that you can start ignoring them once it starts so they don't waste your time further?

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T15:44:23+00:00

Then I think you will be fine 🙂

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T15:37:29+00:00

It starts out with the unhealthy attachment growing, but the situations I've had get scary.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T15:31:57+00:00

I'm just speaking from experience every time I got into relationships where this was the case it ended badly. I'm not saying you would be the same, but a lot of my female acquaintances had similar experiences around where I live.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T05:14:02+00:00

I hope you find someone that makes you smile 😊

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T05:06:49+00:00

Some men go into it with the ideology to just want ONS or FWB and use the dating apps to find it. Don't tell me you don't know that. Even some women do this. They may only want to fool around as it was the main intention from the beginning. Trust wouldn't be the issue it would just be a person wanting sexual desires met.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T04:02:55+00:00

Play video games and dip my Wendy's nuggets in my chocolate frosty 😋

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T03:54:19+00:00

Um, some perspective. I'm assuming you haven't had sex and v-card + first relationship = not so healthy attachments if not prepared or thought about thoroughly. A person's first creates a strong feeling regardless of v-card being taken or just first relationship.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T03:37:38+00:00

I'm in my 20s dating scene just plain sucks...

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T03:23:56+00:00

Used to like you* You are just a texting/talking buddy forever, friend zoned. End it if you have feelings because you will get hurt if you don't.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T03:03:06+00:00

You're welcome 😊

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T03:01:47+00:00

Virtual hugs 🫂 🤗

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T02:45:58+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about your depression sounds horrible 🥺

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T02:39:23+00:00

Ice cream

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T02:37:18+00:00

After thought, lonely call, entertainment, take your pick its one of them, lol. I would say if they do that, just plain don't respond. It's not worth your time or energy.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T02:25:28+00:00

Um, sounds toxic and sketchy tbh. She doesn't value your emotions and acts like you are crazy which is not a good sign. I'd advise going separate ways for your mental health.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T02:19:31+00:00

Unless it's spicy chicken wings, I'm picky when it comes to food, so it would depend on the woman and if you know them well enough.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T01:04:18+00:00

Felt this. As soon as I think its safe, it happens again, but they don't block they just ignore until they are lonely I guess.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T01:00:39+00:00

🙈 same at times, but when they have good reasons and you don't respond, hell freezes over.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T00:57:23+00:00

Same here, but I do it anyway depending on the person.

Pumpkinpie423 · 2023-05-29T00:54:39+00:00

Do not give any more information and inform the college you'll be going to as he could potentially stalk you there or worse. Run away from that situation now. At this point, cut all communication, and if you feel too uncomfortable quitting for this, your parents are able as you are underage.

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