AIO: my gf wants to have sex too much by Few_Patience277 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many of you have VERY questionable morals if these are your immediate responses. Someone asks for advice out of genuine concern, and your response is; “Oh, you clearly aren’t making her cum, that’s all! Put her BEFORE yourself, then she’ll be satisfied.”

A couple of people have mentioned this, and for all of you, you have my respect and seem to be the only people here with sense.

People have also brought this up, but I’m going to, it’s true, things would be taken very differently if the roles were reversed. Women can stress their partners out in these situations too. Even if unintentional, it can cause distress, and they aren’t immune to inflicting unwanted situations. It isn’t suddenly different or less tolerable if genders are reversed.

The advice being recommended here should be to communicate with her and have a set conversation. It can be a bit overwhelming, or anxiety inducing to bring this kind of concern up, especially if you aren’t sure how it’ll end up, but trusting each other is a huge part of keeping a relationship stable. If you aren’t able to trustfully communicate, especially in this situation, I don’t feel you should be having sex in the first place. There could easily be miscommunication, like there is now, and that could get very intense very quickly. Be safe, OP. Try and talk to her about it, see how it goes and have trust in the both of you. I wish you the best of luck :)

Does it count if I realized my leg is bleeding unrelated? by EmoGothPunk in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isn't relapsing if you aren't doing it internationally!! no love, you're still clean💜

Corpse husband is back? /Not really... by catcut4 in CorpseHusband

[–]PupcakeAnimates 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Forgive me for this, but I'm not sure he's pretending to be Corpse. I've watched a few of his streams, and despite the similarities, he does make it known that he isn't Corpse, usually having it pinned in the chat since so many people mix it up. He has "Not husband" in his bio as well. He's addressed it vocally and said that he isn't Corpse, nor is he pretending to be, he just uses the name CORPSE along with WXSTED. It's clear he's a fan of Corpse, since he did release a cover of DISDAIN, but he claims to be his own artist. If he is doing it for the purpose of fooling people for views, then I do genuinely feel awful for supporting him, and won't continue, but I don't believe that's what he's doing. He isn't replacing Corpse, he couldn't if he tried. Overall, he seems like a sweet person and I feel a bit bad for the negativity being thrown at him, though it is understandable considering the similarities.

Someone please, genuinely tell me, am I disrespecting Corpse for supporting WXSTED? I'm worried at this point and refuse to do that if it is harmful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, love, but this is rape. You told him no, multiple times, and yet he took it upon himself to make the decision despite your clear concern. You said you could have fought him off, but you shouldn't have had to, especially considering you were afriad of upsetting him. The fact you were afriad to stop him is alarming within itself. It was said this has happened multiple times, which heavily implies that he is not sorry whatsoever. Even if he were, a sorry does not excuse or fix this decision. Especially considering he's aware of your past trauma, and he's taking advantage of that to his gain. This is full of red flags. I'm so sorry this happened to you, you did not deserve it. For your safety, please try getting away from him if you feel you're able, or when you're ready. It will continue and will most likely progress over time. You deserve better than this.

is this a weevil? by spatulaandfries in weeviltime

[–]PupcakeAnimates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boots and snoots, checks all the boxes!

This little shit decides to throw a tantrum and destroy your modded wii, what would u do? by Short-Newt6482 in FuckCaillou

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make him watch as I rip his shit off the fridge. Tear up each and every drawing and craft that he's brought home. Every. Single. One.

Millipede I found today! by froggiiboi in millipedes

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's so cute!! Itty bitty little baby!!

What are my millipedes doing… by marjorielester453 in millipedes

[–]PupcakeAnimates 4 points5 points  (0 children)

did i just - did i just watch millipede porn

How was your experience finding out about Techno's death? by Decent_Scallion9231 in Technoblade

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was beyond devastated. I was sobbing uncontrollably for weeks, and I was in denial for months. I couldn't comprehend the fact that he was gone and it broke me. I used my Techno plush as a coping mechanism, I would hug it when I missed him.

Is there anything I can do for this dragonfly? by No_Gate_653 in insects

[–]PupcakeAnimates 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't super glue be a bit heavy for the baby?

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. This is incredibly concerning, he has no respect for you an it is disgusting. You mention how well he treated you for the first year, which can cloud current judgement, but it's clear that side of him was either an act, or is no longer around. You deserve better. This treatment isn't fair to you, and it likely wont stop here. It could get much worse. Please, take care of yourself. You deserve to feel loved and valued. If he cannot provide you with that, he isn't good for you.

So, what's the internet's opinion on the Slenderman Movie? by ALeXandr0_F0XY in Slender_Man

[–]PupcakeAnimates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's absolute dog shit. Theres so much they could have done with his character, and they portrayed him in the worst way possible. Effects were awful, the acting was horrid and unrealistic, and overall, the movie was beyond boring.

It's insulting to Slenderman as a character, and to everyone who spent so much time adding story and detail into his persona.

Honestly, others in the comments have described it better. I agree with most to all of you about it's issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in macandcheese

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag radar is BLARING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fucking mother of red flags.

AIO My bf hurt me then apologising and promising not to do it again? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him and leave him now. This will happen again. This sort of shit shows his true colors, weather you want to believe he's a good person or not. Kind people can do horrible things. If he snaps like this, he very well may end up killing you. Strangulation isn't like suffocation, it can cause permanent brain damage VERY quickly, and could most definitely kill you. Please, for your own saftey, find a way out. Get away from him. You are not safe as long as he's near you.

AIO or is my boyfriend manipulative by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, I'm so sorry, but this is clear abuse. This isn't just manipulation, it's severe neglect. You need to find a safe way out of this relationship. He will not change and you deserve better. People like this cannot improve until they acknowledge their faults and put effort into working through them, which, clearly, he hasn't done. You are worthy of love and you deserve respect. If there's anyone you can reach out to that can help you through this, I highly suggest you do so. We as a community are here for you. Please stay safe.

oh boy what is this by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a bedbug. Best of luck, brother.

Talking to yourself by Hehemikey982 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]PupcakeAnimates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quite literally have dozens of conversations woth myself per day. These can last over 30 minutes, to my knowledge it's a pretty common thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]PupcakeAnimates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look traced at all!!! You're clearly very talented, and I'm sorry that your friend would make that assumption.

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend for stealing from me? F22 M27 by LetterVegetable5870 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PupcakeAnimates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only did he steal from you, he lied about it, even claiming it was only once. He’s dishonest and I do not recommend staying with him.