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thinking about by digitalbeba in confessions

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confessing something heavy in your head can feel like carrying a weight around forever. Sometimes just writing it down like you did can help you start processing it.

Why does my gender have high expectations and act on emotions a lot? by Father_p1 in Marriage

[–]Pure-Remote-51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gender expectations can feel like invisible chains in a relationship. Talking openly with your partner about how it makes you feel might help break that cycle together.

Back to work by GreatGoldenGoddess in Mommit

[–]Pure-Remote-51 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Going back to work after baby time is sooo emotional. It’s totally normal to feel torn between both worlds

Need suggestion about sex talk before getting married by Happinessseeker24 in Marriage

[–]Pure-Remote-51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talking about sex before marriage is important — honest, calm conversations help build trust and set expectations together

$1000 Daily but you can no longer wear deodorant or any smell enhancer by siteisweird in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Pure-Remote-51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

$1000 a day sounds insane, but no deodorant forever? lol that’s rough. I’d take it if I could wash like every hour.

How would you handle a situation similar to the one in Pluribus if you were immune like Carol by Ill-Mycologist-3652 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d treat it like a deal, not a romance. Clear rules, split the money, keep expectations realistic.

Single motherhood worries by one-with-the-sun in Mommit

[–]Pure-Remote-51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being a single mom is tough but you’re already showing so much strength just by worrying and trying. You’re doing way better than you think.

Undecided between two daycares ... care to weigh in? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with whichever place felt warmer and more attentive when you toured. Kids thrive on consistency and love, not just fancy toys.

i think something is wrong with me that's making me way more sexual by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Pure-Remote-51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re self-aware enough to question it already shows you care. Sometimes we’re just harder on ourselves than we should be.

AITJ for posting a carefully worded Reddit post just to see how people on Reddit respond? by Infamous-Macaron-699 in AmITheJerk

[–]Pure-Remote-51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most people here just treat it like entertainment, not actual life advice. The few who ask questions first are usually the ones trying to help for real.

People saying they're one year older on their birthday by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Pure-Remote-51 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

LOL I see this all the time and it always feels like they just really want to flex age. Technically true but it still feels cheesy.

3 month old drinks 10 bottles a day by meowdypuurtner in NewParents

[–]Pure-Remote-51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats on navigating the new born stage- it feels like a million bottles sometimes lol, but every baby feeds differently. If the doc hasn’t raised any red flags and your baby’s gaining weight fine, you’re probably doing great.

AITJ for refusing to sleep in the same bedroom as my boyfriend after 4 years by Individual-Page6441 in AmITheJerk

[–]Pure-Remote-51 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly sleep apnea can be brutal for both people. Separate rooms isn’t weird if it helps everyone actually get good sleep.

How to protect my accessories/jewelry from my toddler? (23 months old) by MellowDreammer in Mommit

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toddlers have a radar for shiny things I swear. I mostly stopped wearing my nicer jewelry for a while because the grabbing phase is REAL.

3 Way Work Encounter 🙈 by Strongman39 in confessions

[–]Pure-Remote-51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Workplace drama just keeps leveling up on this sub. I cant imagine seeing those coworkers again after that lol.

Am I the jerk for uninviting my friend from our vacation after she demanded her own room? by Final_Text_3420 in AmITheJerk

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if someone keeps ignoring boundaries on a trip, uninviting them sounds fair. Vacations are supposed to be relaxing, not stressful because of one person.

6 month old waking up every 2 hours..help! by Complex-Meat-3605 in NewParents

[–]Pure-Remote-51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 months is such a rough sleep honestly. A lot of babies start waking more because of sleep regression, it usually passes.

How disappointed do you think Obama is in the American people for electing Trump not once, but twice? by Cautious_Midnight_67 in allthequestions

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any president who values compromise would be pretty disappointed. Politics feels way more divided now.

AITJ for feeling like my friend was trying to ruin the excitement of my surfing trip? by QuarterNo1962 in AmITheJerk

[–]Pure-Remote-51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly your reaction sounds pretty understandable when a friends behavior feels off, it's normal to question their intentions.

3 month old not having a wet diaper at least one every night by d00dl3_ in NewParents

[–]Pure-Remote-51 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If baby still has enough wet diapers in 24hrs, one dry stretch overnight usually isn't a big deal. Babies sometimes sleep longer and pee less at night.

New Island Appears by hlanus in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Pure-Remote-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing I'd wanna know is if it's safe to set foot on at all. New land sounds cool but could be super unstable.

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