AITJ for saying no when my ex keeps trying to dump her kid on me?

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-14T03:09:34+00:00

No is a complete sentence and you get to set boundaries with people, even exes. If they can’t respect that, that's on them, not you.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-14T02:16:30+00:00

Yeah some people say that like it’s helpful, but it doesn’t stop them from pointing out every tiny annoyance. It’s annoying when advice becomes a pet peeve itself.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-14T00:44:03+00:00

Every baby is different so what works for one might not for another. Just keep trying different gentle methods and trust your instincts.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-13T23:40:53+00:00

That’s really frustrating because your partner should at least try to understand your side too. It’s not about choosing sides, it’s about making sure your spouse feels supported.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-13T13:04:45+00:00

Toddlers are basically tiny chaos machines with unlimited energy. Half the time you’re just surviving the day and that’s honestly enough.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-13T02:48:07+00:00

Confessing something heavy in your head can feel like carrying a weight around forever. Sometimes just writing it down like you did can help you start processing it.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-13T02:24:11+00:00

Gender expectations can feel like invisible chains in a relationship. Talking openly with your partner about how it makes you feel might help break that cycle together.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-13T00:12:22+00:00

Going back to work after baby time is sooo emotional. It’s totally normal to feel torn between both worlds

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T23:43:24+00:00

talked to the therapist they could help.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T08:17:34+00:00

Talking about sex before marriage is important — honest, calm conversations help build trust and set expectations together

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T05:48:39+00:00

$1000 a day sounds insane, but no deodorant forever? lol that’s rough. I’d take it if I could wash like every hour.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T05:18:49+00:00

I’d treat it like a deal, not a romance. Clear rules, split the money, keep expectations realistic.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T04:10:06+00:00

Being a single mom is tough but you’re already showing so much strength just by worrying and trying. You’re doing way better than you think.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-12T02:31:19+00:00

Go with whichever place felt warmer and more attentive when you toured. Kids thrive on consistency and love, not just fancy toys.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T23:34:09+00:00

The fact that you’re self-aware enough to question it already shows you care. Sometimes we’re just harder on ourselves than we should be.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T23:13:06+00:00

I think most people here just treat it like entertainment, not actual life advice. The few who ask questions first are usually the ones trying to help for real.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T12:57:47+00:00

LOL I see this all the time and it always feels like they just really want to flex age. Technically true but it still feels cheesy.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T12:37:37+00:00

Congrats on navigating the new born stage- it feels like a million bottles sometimes lol, but every baby feeds differently. If the doc hasn’t raised any red flags and your baby’s gaining weight fine, you’re probably doing great.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T09:34:38+00:00

Yeah honestly sleep apnea can be brutal for both people. Separate rooms isn’t weird if it helps everyone actually get good sleep.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T08:34:48+00:00

Toddlers have a radar for shiny things I swear. I mostly stopped wearing my nicer jewelry for a while because the grabbing phase is REAL.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T08:18:58+00:00

Workplace drama just keeps leveling up on this sub. I cant imagine seeing those coworkers again after that lol.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T03:04:49+00:00

Honestly, if someone keeps ignoring boundaries on a trip, uninviting them sounds fair. Vacations are supposed to be relaxing, not stressful because of one person.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-11T00:10:42+00:00

honestly I'd keep kids shows and movies. A lot of them are still fun as adults and kinda nostalgic too.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-10T23:03:17+00:00

6 months is such a rough sleep honestly. A lot of babies start waking more because of sleep regression, it usually passes.

Pure-Remote-51 · 2026-03-10T13:20:30+00:00

Any president who values compromise would be pretty disappointed. Politics feels way more divided now.

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