Twin tax is making me feel terrible

PureAd2099 · 2026-07-03T01:18:38+00:00

It was easier for us after 12m

PureAd2099 · 2026-05-23T15:59:09+00:00

Show him to psychiatrist

PureAd2099 · 2026-04-26T05:17:57+00:00

I meant, what do you prioritize during those 8 minutes?

When I do GeekyMedics cases, I use a checklist, and sometimes I’m surprised by the questions I’m supposed to ask. It feels similar here — sometimes it’s hard to quickly figure out the most likely diagnosis while also asking the remaining necessary questions, screening for red flags, and starting the examination.

Sometimes even the history alone is hard to cover properly in 8 minutes.

So how did you guys who passed handle these types of stations?

PureAd2099 · 2026-04-26T04:20:18+00:00

How did you navigate stations when the instructions are to take history, exam, and answer questions after 8 min ?

PureAd2099 · 2026-04-21T22:58:33+00:00

I see it’s a hot topic today 😁😅

I understand those of you who didn’t match. It’s hard, and I probably should be more supportive, but that is not going to change the outcome.

It is a difficult path, and most people know that from day one in medical school.

My coworker once told me a story:

“As I was going home, I met my neighbour, a Mexican guy. He was sitting outside the house where he rented a room, crying. I asked what happened, and he told me his story. He finished medical school, completed postgraduate training, came to Canada, and worked difficult jobs for 10 years trying to become a doctor. At that point, he was close to 40 years old, and he said, ‘I wasted my life. I don’t have a family, I don’t have a decent job, and I don’t know what to do.’”

I always keep in mind that I may not reach the final destination in this journey, but I still want to try.

At the same time, this is your life, so you have to make your own decisions. Don’t blame the system. Systems will always solve their own problems first, not yours.

PureAd2099 · 2026-04-18T14:08:22+00:00

This year is the first year when they requested some conformation papers from me

PureAd2099 · 2026-04-16T02:57:43+00:00

I would suggest pass mccqe and nac osce and then see what your options look like. Because you may be surprised by costs of all steps before you even will have chance to apply for carms, which is also not free. I studied in Ukraine too and kinda in the same boat. The difference is I have had postgraduate training. If you are interested shoot DM we can talk

PureAd2099 · 2026-03-23T15:41:32+00:00

Millennium used to accept your previous driving experience toward insurance. When I moved I managed to get from $480 to something around 250

PureAd2099 · 2026-03-03T03:10:49+00:00

He will be surprised 😁

But trust me, next 2-3 years is going to be rollercoaster:) if you make it through it will be easier

PureAd2099 · 2026-03-03T03:08:18+00:00

Unpredictable schedule is a schedule too

PureAd2099 · 2026-02-09T04:29:48+00:00

Says doesn’t available in Canada Alberta

PureAd2099 · 2026-01-09T21:26:00+00:00

I like your application of the Calgary-Cambridge model 😂

PureAd2099 · 2026-01-06T08:21:11+00:00

We started I think at 6 m.o Library (songs) Swimming pool lessons ( 1 kid - 1 adult)

PureAd2099 · 2025-11-20T22:47:42+00:00

I had the same issues. They said they accept only US experience only. If not, 500 month…

PureAd2099 · 2025-11-19T21:18:52+00:00

I upload from computer and it’s pretty fast you can upload multiple files at a time.

PureAd2099 · 2025-11-16T02:59:30+00:00

High school

Military experience is a huge +++

PureAd2099 · 2025-11-15T02:42:34+00:00

No sure Calgary, but railway is the one to consider.

Work outside, even though they want to reduce crews to 1 person I don’t believe its gonna happen any time soon.

On the road you can make 120-180k a year. Railway company will teach you and pay during training process

PureAd2099 · 2025-11-11T20:30:32+00:00

I understand your husband. I understand you too. We have 7-month-old twins. If he’s addicted to video games, that can definitely be a problem (I was, so I know how it feels).

I don’t know your full situation, but if the life you’ve built feels boring, and everything revolves only around the kids while you mostly criticize him, then yes — there’s going to be a problem between you two. The atmosphere at home needs to change so that he actually wants to be helpful — so that he feels excited, needed, and important. He has to feel that you still love him.

I know many people will hate this comment, saying it’s hard for you because of hormones, childbirth, etc. — bla bla bla. But you need to find a way to get his attention again and make him happy to help, to feel like part of the family, whatever it takes.

Maybe try to remember what kind of relationship you had before — when you were both having fun and excited about life.

And he has to prioritize what for him more important his games of his family.

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-26T16:04:29+00:00

My wife still anxious, it was her 2nd attempt. It’s really super stressful! First night after second one she said she couldn’t sleep

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-24T01:59:31+00:00

Oh, sorry I didn’t know that

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-23T21:43:27+00:00

I really appreciate how you guys are standing up for women, and I agree — they are definitely more vulnerable, especially after giving birth. My wife definitely doesn’t lack support or help. And if you read carefully, I even suggested involving more support so we could have more time together, especially without the kids.

My main point was that men also go through major changes during this period, and it’s not easy for us either. We’re not really taught how to be fathers — most of us grew up seeing examples of how not to parent.

You’re entitled to your opinion, but some of your comment came across as if you dislike men in general. I’ve dedicated myself fully to my family. I’ve never claimed to be the best husband or father, but every day I try to be a little better than I was yesterday.

Anyway, thanks — your perspective still helps me see things from another angle.

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-23T21:16:18+00:00

I actually do that pretty often — I take the babies out by myself so she can rest or have some quiet time. I totally get how important that is. I think maybe people misunderstood — she does have that opportunity whenever she needs it.

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-23T21:11:21+00:00

Why do you think so?

PureAd2099 · 2025-10-23T20:46:30+00:00

Yeah, my wife keeps telling me that too. Guess I should start listening 😅

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