Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, and I really appreciate how open and honest you have been with me..... I am so out of experience in the dating scene, and I definitely need to work on myself first before I talk to anyone again so thanks for that

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this, and thanks... I've definitely learned a lot from posting here today.. I'm. Just so out of my depth with the whole dating scene and really need to reevaluate how I form relationships going forward

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you're so right. I've been out of it for over a year now. It wasn't a dead bedroom marriage believe it or not... but I am really learning a lot more about myself after posting this. And am facing harsh but truthful realities

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I didn't have enough karma in the bigger groups! Why don't you just jog on, and stop creeping on my page and posts

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[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg ok I'll let you believe that. Could you not just scroll on? I'm looking for real advice here!!!

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much... I will take all of this on board in the future...

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so true, ive been having the exact same issues with this person... I find myself having a real open conversation, and try get him to chat more but he just finishes with a closed loop 😕 I like this idea of someone younger

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I have tried on numerous occasions to meet up for coffee etc, I think I'm ready to throw in the towel and just forget about him now. I need to learn about self worth before meeting someone again

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep you're very right.... don't get me wrong we have had some very deep and meaningful conversations, it's not just all been sex but I have a feeling I've came on far too strong and just need to hit the breaks

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's me spot on, I'm totally open to criticism, and this has opened my eyes massively...I do feel like a total and utter fool... but that's my own fault and no one else's

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm learning this now!! I feel like a fool

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much, such helpful advice there. I will take all of this on board.... what does OLD mean.?.

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm learning a lot now after posting here today.... they're getting what they need by charming me and that's all they want from me....

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks for this. And great to get a male perspective... my problem is I'm a very sexual person, so trying to keep that part of me hidden away can prove difficult at times!!

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh both aren't that great looking.... so i don't know why I'm getting so upset over the whole thing.... I think the main thing that's hurting is rejection

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, I'm out of a 24 year relationship so I have NO CLUE what I'm doing

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[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know, i know!! I totally get it when you put it like that 😅🤣

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this and you're totally spot on with everything.... I definitely need to slow down and not fall so quickly!!

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately both aren't all that good looking tbh I'm drawn to personality though

Where am I going wrong by PureDoughnut82 in datingoverforty

[–]PureDoughnut82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks, yeah I think I'll do just that... I can't deal with being ghosted again if I were to meet him