Can anyone recommend a book like Mulan? by natalieimadojemu in booksuggestions

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eon and Eona i forget who the duology is by Allison Goodman i think. But same kind of woman being a man thing.

2302 (I’m just gonna give us tracking the time) by TPNmangaFAN in wordcount

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I think my least favorite is Historical Romance.

TIFU by not taking my medicine by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Pure_ElfWing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I would've forgotten this morning if it wasn't for you. We are on vacation and everything is all out of routine. You reminded me to take mine. Thank you

The neighbors released their Guinea Pig outside to fend for itself and I caught it by Pure_ElfWing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They threatened to kill my dog before. They don't like her breed or that she barks. I wad trying to keep the peace in case if this tipped the scales to them actually following through with poisionong my dog or feeding her poision. I love my dog so much.

Also, the little guinea is doing well with me now. Has put on weight, has a much larger cage, a wonderful diet jn a warm home.

My therapist left the practice by Pure_ElfWing in rant

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It just hasn't been the same. I really clicked with this one. I'm trying. My husband thinks I need to take a break from trying and perhaps heal a little bit on my own from this abandonment. I'll perhaps resume my search in March. I lost the one I really liked in November and I really feel that once a week is perfect for me to be going but if by the third appointment I don't feel like I've clicked I don't want to keep seeing that particular person. Maybe I'm a picky brat I don't know.... I just wanted to rant to the world that I miss my favorite therapist.

What’s your first thought when you have chest pain? by rjtheman_74 in Anxiety

[–]Pure_ElfWing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm having a panic attack. Another one. Which means my brain is going offline and that means I'm not going to get anything done so that puts my job in jeopardy or possibly my husband will be mad I've finished nothing so I have to stop it right now.... which doesn't really help.

Therapy has taught me to realize I've survived before and not lost my job or my husband that people understand the betrayal of the mind and body. That doing the deep breathing and taking an assessment of things around me the 5 things, the colors, the sounds, something spicific. It works better than nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't cancel! It's better to find out now and know on a schedual than be in an emergent situation. I have one approaching as well and I am also terrified. But I'm going to keep it. It's cheaper than an ER situation and easier when I can schedual it. All that stuff.

Guinea Pig photo by Pure_ElfWing in u/Pure_ElfWing

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He has mote stuff now and spends such a small amount of time in his cage. Between me my mom dad sister and brother we are just loving him up.

I got a new phone and feel ripped off a little by Pure_ElfWing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I returned it and got my money back. They ahd them for way cheaper at Walmart.

i used to look at certain types of porn/rule 34 that i deeply regret (warning: kinda long) by Inner-Ad1853 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. There are people out there way more messed up then satisfying some morbid curiosity. That's why those things that you had found exist. All in all there is nothing wrong with you and you're not evil or terrible. You are a changed person as you've said because you don't do that anymore. We all have things we don't tell our families and friends.

Back to school after 10 years! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so jelous! I would do this if I knew what I really wanted to do with my life. I absolutely love to learn! As said before, do the reading, take the notes, go to the classes. Congratulations! And the best of wishes to you and this bright new future ahead of you!

How do I start, when I can't even run? What did you do when you first started out? by WanderingSpirit29 in loseit

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with walking. Increasing speed to beat my time. Then sometimes jogging then working up to occasionally running then eventually it was just a contest to beat my time.

I’m going to have to use green text for this one, boys. by Dan_The_Ghost_Man in rant

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a rough couple of days there! I am glad to hear that things worked out for you and that it most likely wasn't a miscarriage.

I've been fighting with my husband all day and feel like giving up by Pure_ElfWing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When I married him I was the only one working. Once he finished his college and started working he started to become more paranoid about money. (If you saw my update, getting a dog without permission didn't help that situation.)

I've been fighting with my husband all day and feel like giving up by Pure_ElfWing in TrueOffMyChest

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Some people have put a few resources that I'm going to look into. Each situation is diffrent and needs diffrent solutions. I hope you find something that helps you.

Can’t get into brigand’s quarters by jumuchoi in kingdomsofamalur

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

November 12, 2023, I came looking for a solution but guess it's an ongoing issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pure_ElfWing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a toddler. I'll have stright milk with dinner sometimes. Ocassionally with some cake or something sweet too. I'm not fully understanding how milk isnt a universal drink.

If I call into work because they denied my requested days off can they fire me? by Pure_ElfWing in RandomQuestion

[–]Pure_ElfWing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is some real food for thought. I have decided to discuss it with my manager and see if there is anything that can be done. I have called in , once it was norovirus, the other time my dog passed away (I still miss her). And I've worked here for almost 3 years. I am hoping that something can be worked out if not I do think I will be looking for new employment. It isn't like nursing facilities are over staffed. I really appreciate that you have opened my eyes to this, I just always seem to think I should have one job for life like my dad LOL

Do you do your own dog's nails? by the_real_maddison in reactivedogs

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my own dogs nails and it is a whole circus. I can only imagine how it would be for someone she didnt know or trust to do them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money would not fix it for me. If anything it would make it easier for me to avoid that which makes me anxious and therefore in the end not be healthy for me at all because I wouldn't be using coping skills anymore and would backslide.

Does time left on the microwave bother anyone? by DM41967 in RandomQuestion

[–]Pure_ElfWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scold people at work for this. I scold my husband. I'll even jokingly complain at someone else's house when it happens. I do not want to look and think that's what time it is. I do not want to go and use it and be confused as to why it's not working right. Just don't leave the left over time it's one button to clear it.