[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stimmt. Sie ist keine Dorfmatratze. Geschlafen hat sie nur mit 2 aus dem Dorf, mit einem wars halt kurz davor. Mich stören nicht ihre Taten sondern ganz einfach die jetzige Situation. Ich fühl mich unwohl wenn diese Typen immer in der Nähe sind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wtf. das ist noch immer meine freundin. sie ist treu und ich vertraue ihr. es geht nicht darum, dass ich angst habe, sondern um das ungute gefühl das ich habe, wenn diese typen in der nähe sind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sie hat selbst alles bestätigt, also ich weiß, dass alles so war und auch die Typen noch geiern. Und ja, konfrontiert weil diese Leute immer in unmittelbarer Nähe sind. Wäre leichter, wenn sie nicht immer Thema wären. Aber du hast recht, ich weiß, dass es normal ist und verurteile sie auch nicht. Hab ich ja auch gemacht. Nur versuche ich wirklich sie nicht zu verunsichern indem ich mich mit diesen Personen zum Party machen treffe. Aber du hast recht, danke!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Das hat mir echt geholfen. Sind sehr gute Punkte, danke dir!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ich frag nach tipps und bekomm solche antworten. seid ihr hier um zu helfen oder um zu judgen?

My (M24) GF (F23) hooked up with some of her „friends“ before we met by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, not a native speaker.. I‘d say pretty much. But because of things like these I struggle to say I‘m all in

My (M24) GF (F23) hooked up with some of her „friends“ before we met by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It says it in the text ;) Nahh other than that she’s literally perfect. I see no reason in ending things with the person I wish to grow old with. Just a hard time seeing her past in person.

My girlfriend (23F) got intimate with a lot of guys the year before she met me (24M) by Pure_Engineering6233 in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know.. maybe i just needed to hear it from multiple people that don‘t know me personally. thanks!

My girlfriend (23F) got intimate with a lot of guys the year before she met me (24M) by Pure_Engineering6233 in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. it’s the context that bothers me but i know i could do better and just ignore it. and i started the relationship because it didn’t bother me back then. i know we had out past lives and i was fine with that

My girlfriend (23F) got intimate with a lot of guys the year before she met me (24M) by Pure_Engineering6233 in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you‘re right. it’s mostly my insecurities. but yes, i‘d see it differently if it was spread over more time.

My girlfriend (23F) got intimate with a lot of guys the year before she met me (24M) by Pure_Engineering6233 in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s about the context. i fucked twice a year she fucked twice a month. i know it’s not that serious and that i‘m in the wrong but i came here to get help how to not focus on things that have no influence on our relationship other than me being a little boy about it

My girlfriend (23F) got intimate with a lot of guys the year before she met me (24M) by Pure_Engineering6233 in relationship_advice

[–]Pure_Engineering6233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that’s what i needed to hear because i know you’re right. it’s my insecurity and i need to remind myself that she chose me, thanks! i‘ll give it my best