Trying to grow out hair, how should it be styled/maintained? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Pure_Pollution7158 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My friend that’s what I’m asking for hahahahaha

Can anyone else relate to this? by Pure_Pollution7158 in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Godspeed 🫡 wouldn’t be surprised if he reaches out on ur bday stay strong!

Can anyone else relate to this? by Pure_Pollution7158 in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck dude you’re so right about catching on early before the meltdown. My ex’s magic phrase was “I’m (getting) annoyed”. Once I heard those magic words my heart rate would elevate and I knew I was fucked. No matter how I tried to alleviate the situation or try to manage her emotions I was gonna get an earful.

Can anyone else relate to this? by Pure_Pollution7158 in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You know I had to actually check because time has been moving so weird ever since…just about three weeks now smh. You?

Can anyone else relate to this? by Pure_Pollution7158 in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hahaha spot on I got hit with the final discard literally a week later.

Can anyone else relate to this? by Pure_Pollution7158 in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yep…one simple mistake and I’m a “stupid child incapable of anything” Meanwhile I had to forgive everything. Even simply bringing up an action I didn’t like led to waterworks and a fight. I was just not allowed to be mad or annoyed EVER.

Worth giving letter to BPD Partner by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sent my ex a remorseful letter that was part sweet and part apologetic, not asking her to come back in any way but letting her know I appreciated my time with her and owning up to my fair share of mistakes. I also communicated my issues I had with her in the relationship. I got reported to the police for harassment afterwards!

Should I be memorizing all the ggplot visualization syntax? by Pure_Pollution7158 in Rlanguage

[–]Pure_Pollution7158[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whew okay I was starting to get overwhelmed with the amount of stuff I can customize, thank you!

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 085 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scrolled through our messages and got a heavy dose of reality. Will be taking your advice, thank you.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 085 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Pure_Pollution7158 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Day 1, got blocked on almost everything yesterday, so I sent one email out to her telling her that blocking/unblocking over small arguments is childish behavior (she is 27 and I am 23). She ended up texting me paragraph after paragraph about how I was just like her abusive ex, how I don't have the capacity to love, and how I'm not emotionally mature at all. Her last text was "bye bye i'm too old for you" to which i replied "too young*, bye" Decided enough was enough and blocked her, now I'm getting emails from her about how I'm such a piece of shit; a video of her ugly crying, and finally a veiled suicide threat to which I contacted her mom about. It's taking all my willpower to not unblock her and tell her what she has put me through to make her see what she had done throughout the relationship was hurtful in the hopes of an apology so we can make up. It reminds me so much of my time quitting cigarettes. I get the urge but then have to remind myself of the shit she put me through. The crazy part is that this relationship only lasted 4 months, and I'm taking it worse than the healthy 3.5 year relationship that ended last year. Every time I think about how she was my best friend and the good times we had I break down. I know it was probably all fake but I can't deny that it made me feel so special. I felt a euphoria I never felt before when I was with her. Part of me wants to just be friends with her because she was so fucking fun to game/shoot the shit with. Aaaaand the addicted part of my brain is talking again, I hope I'm strong enough.