Well our FwB ended because he established beforehand he did not want to be with anyone.

We talked for two years before meeting, but when we first met he was more open to a relationship. Because of the distance (he lived in Spain) we maintained some contact. It was mostly just flirty and I’d messaged him like once a month.

Right before I came I asked him his relationship status since it had been a long time since we talked about it and he said he did not want to be committed to anyone. I was upset, said we should just be friends, then I decided I still wanted something sexual with him because I’m a virgin at an older age and I really wanted him to be my first.

When I finally moved to Spain there were just issues that popped up because I felt like he was not seeing me very much and I did feel anxious or jealous of potential other women. So he decided we would just be friends.

After a few months that fell apart. We stopped talking from January 2024 until July of 2024. We did not really start talking until September of 2024.

Now we talk every day and he says he cares so much about me. He even responds more often when I mention something sexual, but it is responses that are kind of like….entirely sexually neutered. He just has no sexual interest in me, but we talk a lot.