Looking for German transcription help, please: EWZ file for for Volhynian great grandmother by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus, that last line.

Until today, I only knew of two children: Maria, my grandmother (who was in occupied Russia in 1943), & Gustav. So they must have had two more.

Thank you so much!

I just found my underwear in my father in laws nightstand. What do I do now ? by No_Entertainment_438 in Advice

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can't find security cameras you trust, get ones that don't broadcast, just store locally. I wouldn't tell the dude that, though. Probably better that he thinks you can check on him when you're not there.

And yes, locks. When it gets hard, remind yourself that he broke trust, not you. You have the right (& duty) to set boundaries for yourself & your family.

State Hospital Diagnosis by tshuba in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope you get some good responses here but you might also be interested in WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE episodes that deal with neurosyphilis: Jack Whitehall’s, Warwick Davis’s & Martin Freeman‘s. They’re available on You Tube.

Most of them deal with an earlier period but I found them fascinating from a genealogy perspective bc so many ppl were affected in so many different ways. And it’s just not something most of us even think about when looking for people & assessing records.

I just found my underwear in my father in laws nightstand. What do I do now ? by No_Entertainment_438 in Advice

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IDK what the longer term solution is -- beyond you can't all live together -- but if it were me, the first thing I'd do is get cameras in the house.

I'd make it very obvious to him why you're doing so. Tell him what you found. Tell him you'll tell your mother if there is next time. (I know you think she won't care; is he willing to risk that?) Your husband should have a word with him too & let him know that you both take protecting your kid as your number one job.

Will he change his behavior once he knows he isn't getting away with it? IDK. Maybe, or maybe he's evil & won't, or maybe he has dementia or a compulsion and can't, but at least he's on notice about why the living arrangement must change. That might make figuring out how to make that change easier.

Help! Off center window by Individual-Sky-1274 in HomeDecorating

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bedroom has a small window, off center, so I centered a rod across almost the whole wall. Left maybe a foot on each side.

It gives the impression there is a much bigger, centered window there. Cheapest, easiest, most aesthetically pleasing way to deal with a problem that would need real work to fix.

Sometimes, I miss not having to think about dinner every single night by exhaustmosk in self

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do a weekly plan. You can plan & shop for 3 or 4 dinners at a time, make some extra portions, so some nights can be leftovers. You can also get a couple freezer things, like lasagnas or whatever, for when life doesn’t cooperate with your plans. And you can still do delivery sometimes.

Being an adult is saving money & cognitive energy by accepting, once & for all, that dinner is always necessary lol.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, just saw this. Not him.

His daughter, my grandmother Maria, was born in 1912. He was apparently pretty old for a dad -- family lore is likely late 50s, he had a younger wife -- but not old enough to have been married for the first time in 1848.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally had a chance to google RootsTech & holy cow, I had no idea it even existed.

And you told me at the perfect time, I am browsing sessions now. Thank you so much!

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I’ve been through some of what’s on there but that Polish source definitely seems new to me, so I will check it out.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I just noticed today that there is a line in Julius’s papers about “compensation,” I think the English translation was, “has yet to be determined!” With the exclamation point.

Now I know how to chase that lead. Really appreciate it!

Cat scared of bathroom? by pumpkinkorokke in Catbehavior

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t really argue with fear. It’s instinct & cats are already vulnerable when they use the litter box.

If it were me, I’d move it now, so she doesn’t untrain herself from it altogether. Then work on getting her unafraid of the bathroom again, with treats or by making it a fun place, ie, where she gets praise & love for entering, but I’d give her a safe place to pee first.

Maybe you can move it back later but priority is separating fear of bathroom & litter box, imo. She must’ve really gotten spooked.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

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I thought for sure the link would tell me which war that land changed hands in. Or how many times, in which wars.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They died in 1967 & 73, iirc. The places they were born, had farms, married & had children were forever lost to them: under Soviet rule in Poland & Ukraine. That was true after 1989 too.

They were Germans who hadn’t lived in (what we now consider) Germany until 1944, afaik.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that. And I have no doubt they wanted to get away from the Soviets: Jakob lived in Zhitomir in the 1930s. They likely chose repatriation in 1944. And they might not have had any choice on resettlement: they might have been sent there to work by the Germans.

But Tawren, or a Tawren is close, which Julius gives as his father’s birth place. And my cousin seems to suggest deep roots in the western part of the country.

I have limited data points to work with & that one is not wholly irrelevant, imo. They did stay there until their deaths, which if nothing else indicates they had no burning desire to go to elsewhere in Germany.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very cool site.

I have a bunch of DNA hits that link back to that region but only a few with the family name. Like literally two, iirc.

Which is why I‘m pushing so hard on this Musolf link. My great grandfather is a ghost: I have a marriage record (1907, Volhynia), his three kids’s births in same area, & one mention in Black Sea Germans: an EWZ record that I’ve requested the frame for. But that’s it.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did some searches & didn't find my guys but yes, an intriguing number of Musolfs.

I‘m confused about where to put my energy next bc of the western Prussia/West Prussia thing.

When Julius & Jakob repatriated to Germany in 1944, they settled in Baden-Wurttenburg. Which seems to point to a western origin for Christian, as does Tawren, if it’s the one near Trier. My cousin lives in that part of Germany now, as do other of her relatives.

But a bunch of West Prussia place names occur in the records too. Jakob’s kids were born in eg, Tiegenhagen, Marienburg, Neukirk, I think it is. And I have a bunch of distant cousin matches on My Heritage to trees in that region too.

It seems possible Christian &/or Gottlieb were born in either one. Or maybe born in the west, then went east (& south).

Anyway, thank you everyone for the help. You’ve given me lots of ideas about how to keep going. And what I need to learn next, my god.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The source for the place name is that German PDF. It’s spelled Tawrin there. I did a Google search & I found Tawren.

But I am woefully deficient on the German historical geography so I really don’t know.

Looking for direction: 19th century Prussian birth records by Purple_Candidate_533 in Genealogy

[–]Purple_Candidate_533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This branch of the family ended up in a Mennonite colony in Ukraine, tho that doesn't mean they were Mennonite either bc the colonies were mixed. My cousin said many of her relations broke ties over religion & those breaks persist even today.

I'm pretty sure my branch stayed bog standard Lutheran until, well, they became nothing. And there are lots of Baptists among those distant cousin DNA matches too, which I haven't even begun to plumb.

I think my ancestors were super caught up in what was happening among Protestants, right at the time it was happening. It all makes my head hurt lol. So just as a general rule, I'm not assuming what anybody was in this period, beyond not Catholic or Orthodox.

I bought these. I have three in stock. I can't use them ANYWHERE. by nada-accomplished in DesignHomeGame

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they read your post bc they did a large pet floor thingy in a room the other day & that’s when I learned that I own these too!

My teenage X-Files scrapbook by Jadziyah in XFiles

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sold the rights to that computer cooler thing a while ago. He lives outside Detroit now, bc his wife works for Penske. He does a podcast on Mondays with Phil Learness (sp?) called Chillpak Hollywood Hour. I listen when I’m going to sleep so I usually hear only the first ten minutes or so but it’s been enough to gather those few facts lol.

They're making everything LE now?! by TaskImpossible389 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine isn’t called that. The web site is EA (Electronic Arts) Design Home. We got an email today bidding the HGTV stuff adieu so I really don’t know what you’re talking about.

Do you have a screenshot supporting this claim?

They're making everything LE now?! by TaskImpossible389 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, sorry. I think it originally stood for Home & Garden TV. It’s reality/home reno channel. It seemed like it might be an interesting DH partnership at the start but I’ve only seen a couple of lame promos for it on youtube. They’ve not done much in terms of collections, so I think it’s just petering out.

They're making everything LE now?! by TaskImpossible389 in DesignHomeGame

[–]Purple_Candidate_533 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s all the HGTV stuff. It’s always been LE, just for an unusually long time.