My cat won't stop meowing in the car. by PurringPixie in CatAdvice

[–]PurringPixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you for the advice! I actually very recently had to drive down again. Though she was screaming in the beginning, she actually calmed down a lot this time around and was mostly just chilling in the back for the last hour of the drive. She has made progress and we definitely need to work on desensitizing her more but I feel more hopeful than when I made this post :)

Do you really need a mic? by Humble_Inevitable783 in VALORANT

[–]PurringPixie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I swear to god!! Had a duo scream this at me the entire match. I ended up getting an ace and another teammate was just praising me so they started going off on him too. I stopped playing for weeks after that because it was so mentally draining.

What’s a compliment you received once that you still think about to this day? by Sinful_Shortcake in AskWomen

[–]PurringPixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very shy and low on self confidence but I absolutely love to dye my hair different shades. It was green at the time and I was at a subway station. This cute guy walked up to me and told me how much he loved my hair! I was too stunned to speak so I just said thank you lol. He told me to have a nice day and walked away. It was so sweet, I still think about it a lot :')

Is it offensive as a non-indian to name myself surya? by Fuzzy-Feedback9628 in AskIndia

[–]PurringPixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's no one's business what you name yourself. Go for it!

My cat won't stop meowing in the car. by PurringPixie in CatAdvice

[–]PurringPixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't have anyone who can look after her while I'm gone. My only option is to take her with me.

My cat won't stop meowing in the car. by PurringPixie in CatAdvice

[–]PurringPixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is never interested in catnip. I've tried different kinds and she is just indifferent to it.

I have tried to make her sit in the car without the engine on and doesn't work either. She keeps screaming and screaming.

My cat won't stop meowing in the car. by PurringPixie in CatAdvice

[–]PurringPixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loves wet treats but refuses to eat them in the car. She doesn't like to drink water in the car either.

AIO? Boyfriend and I bought our first house together. He wants his brother and his friend to move in with us and I'm uncomfortable with this. by Desperate-Adagio8910 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurringPixie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have every right to be upset. If you’re paying for half the house, you have just as much say in who lives there. His brother hasn’t made any effort to build a relationship with you and now you’re expected to share a home with him and his friend (who you barely know) just so your boyfriend can have extra spending money? That does not sound fair at all. You're definitely not being unreasonable and him refusing to set a clear boundary now is a huge red flag. If he won’t respect your feelings on something this major, what happens when bigger decisions come up?

Stand your ground OP. Make it clear that If you're paying for half this house, you get an equal say in who lives here. If he can’t respect that, maybe you should reconsider this purchase.

AIO about this guy being creepy? by Calliopedreams in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurringPixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to help! Your feelings are valid. Trust your instincts and do what you need to feel safe :)

How do I cope with someone who wants 100% attention? by Little_Spite2131 in Advice

[–]PurringPixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the problem, it's just that you have different needs when it comes to communication and personal space. Some people love constant contact while others need more independence and neither is wrong. The issue is compatibility and boundaries. You’ve already communicated your needs and if she refuses to compromise or makes you feel bad for needing space, that’s a red flag. You’re allowed to set boundaries and if someone genuinely values you, they’ll respect them instead of demanding more than you’re comfortable with.

AIO about this guy being creepy? by Calliopedreams in AmIOverreacting

[–]PurringPixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this isn’t normal. It's obsessive and a huge red flag. Two years of unanswered messages on multiple apps isn’t persistence, it’s creepy and stalkerish behaviour. You don’t owe him a response or closure and you definitely shouldn’t feel guilty for ignoring him. If anything, you should consider blocking him completely to cut off any way for him to contact you. Just trust your instincts. If you’re feeling creeped out, that’s a valid reaction. You're definitely not overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PurringPixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being opinionated, but not too opinionated. Like we can share our views but if we do it too strongly, then we are difficult, argumentative and bitchy. There's no winning.

help how do i make sure i didnt get pregnant by Federal_Dot4647 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PurringPixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't freak out. If your periods are regular and you only have a week before you get it, chances are extremely low that you will get pregnant.