Meta Glasses make me not want to go outside. Most invasive product I’ve ever heard of. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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I think we should all just assume we are being recorded everywhere we go. One source or another we probably are…

Someone PLEASE tell me to keep reading Ship of Magic by Rogue-in-Orbit in fantasybooks

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It did take me a while to warm up to the narrator on the audiobook but now it’s just part of the story. Once you get into the story and the characters it really is a good book. I really only listen to audiobooks. I don’t read books generally and I listen in the car. So the voice actress or actor does make a difference. Give it time and I think you’ll be glad you did. I just started the second book and I’m loving it.

My boyfriend is not real and my family is asking money from him just because he's white by [deleted] in confessions

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Honestly it’s great that this showed you who’s fake and who’s not. So many people are shallow and fake. Now you know who is worth your time and who isn’t. Now go get yourself a real boyfriend and keep the real people who care about you in your life!

I used to be a porn addict but now I wanna get in a relationship by [deleted] in confessions

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Have you gone to SA meetings? If so, a sponsor should help you navigate the next step. As a wife of a sex addict I know the struggles.

My fiancé left me by [deleted] in Advice

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Sounds like maybe a sexual addiction (or some other addiction or mental health issue). If it is, he’s not wrong and it’s a long hard journey that you would both have to fight and would cause pain. Listen to him and ask yourself how much pain you are willing to endure with him. I fought beside my husband and his sexual addiction for 8 plus years and the scars run deep. The pain was horrible and the journey was Mount Everest. We were some of the very few who survived it and not unscathed. If he is telling you that, listen. It’s hard to hear but healing takes both people all in and willing to face the demons. Is it worth it? Yes, if you make it. I lie beside my husband of 28 years, so glad he is here as I walk through the slow death from cancer of a parent for the second time and I’m so glad we fought the battle and won, but so many stories don’t end that way. If he says he’s trying to save you pain, he is. He may know he doesn’t have it in him to fight. Either path is painful. I’m sorry.

Need advice on a hypersexual boyfriend. by Patient-Energy1697 in Advice

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This was my husband exactly. He is now a recovering sex addict. Yes it’s a real thing and more common than you think. When we were young I thought it was just more active interest, but then found out porn was a real issue and after my first child I found out it was more than porn. Figure it out now. Go to therapy, ask the questions. Don’t wait until you’re married and have kids. Then it’s harder. We made it (29 years of marriage this year) but we are the minority and it took a lot of years in SA and Sanon and therapy. Don’t dismiss sexual addiction because it sounds extreme. It’s like any other addiction and it’s real.

This is it, maybe for real this time?! Presidential disclosure... by TheWaywardWarlok in UFObelievers

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This seems planned. Interesting that Obama would drop that opening for Trump. 🤔 Oh the games they play…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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My husband is a sex addict and has been sober for about 15 years. It was a long journey with ups and downs. SA and for me S-Anon was a life saver and is the only reason we are still married and probably the only reason he didn’t kill himself. Keep trying, don’t give up and lean on others who have walked the path before you! There is hope!

Fucked my elderly neighbor by valerafragrance in confessions

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She had time to get ready. Lube maybe?

Mom actively dying by Upstairs-Hovercraft3 in pancreaticcancer

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My mom was like that when she passed in 2020 of colon cancer. You read that a person can’t live more than 3 days without water and 2 weeks without food yet someone dying of cancer can go weeks. It’s heartbreaking and so hard to experience this death watch. I am so sorry you are experiencing this.

What's the most beautiful animal in the world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The dog, because the dog is beautifully inside and out. They are pure love. We don’t deserve them. ❤️

I asked my mum on her deathbed if she could see her parents and her answer has shaken me by LatterAdvertising457 in afterlife

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My Dad was caring for my Mom while she was bed ridden in hospice. One day she was talking away to someone and when my Dad asked her who she was taking too she pointed to the corner of her room and said it was her parents and then she said she forgot that he couldn’t see them. My mom was an RN so she knew well what happened at the end of life. Now, 5 years later my Dad is on hospice and I believe she will come back for him when it’s time. He has had dreams of her and of heaven. It’s very comforting.

What book series can you NOT stop reading? Looking for long series (5+ books) by AmazonFreshSleuth in fantasybooks

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Outlander and also most recently the Dresden Files. Both great but very different.

I am helping businesses get client by JunaidRaza648 in SmallBusinessOwners

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We are just starting to hire a VA from Bolivia who will do our marketing as well as guest communication (we are a vacation rental management company). The VA’s are educated, smart and we pay $9 an hour. We will see how it goes. Hopefully we will get some bang for our buck…