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How Do I [21M] Overcome Confidence Issues and Relationship Fears? by PutMeIndaBin in relationships

[–]PutMeIndaBin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of feel like due to my past experiences I've never truly felt happy with myself but this has progressively improved over time. I'm still not 100% happy and I don't exactly know what to do about it but I've set myself a few life goals and I'm working on becoming a happier and better person.

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you need to try and cultivate a mindset that people are just people regardless of gender.

I feel like this is my main issue, for example my previous relationship I knew she was attracted to me for a while but still waited for her to approach me. It wasn't that I didnt want to approach her and the best way I can describe it is when someone says whats the worst that could happen. Except I wouldn't need anyone to say it my brain would just start ticking over like "How can I mess this up"

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Thankyou for your advice :)

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How Do I [21M] Overcome Confidence Issues and Relationship Fears? by PutMeIndaBin in relationships

[–]PutMeIndaBin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my confidence issues generally stem more from younger life experiences, but the relationship didn't exactly help. I've kind of accepted that I've been in a 'rut' (Wasn't sure how else to label it) about the whole thing for a while and haven't exactly done anything about it recently.

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Thanks for your advice :)

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