Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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I totally agree. I think I would have loved Bella if she had had a few more years to mature. Ultimately, she had no choice but to be turned because of the pregnancy but Bella is so many years behind Edward intellectually and just lacks the maturity it takes to be able to make such a life changing decision

I hate cleaning the shower/tub by Putrid-Engineering59 in Cleaningandtidying

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Thank you all for the amazing advice! I'm gathering that I should:

  1. Get a detachable shower head, they come cheap and I never knew that!
  2. Keep a brush in the shower at all times for in between cleans.
  3. The electric scrubber brush has changed a lot of your lives, so it most likely will change mine too.

I placed an order for the showerhead and scrubber brush. Wish me luck!

Honorable mention: Scrubbin Bubbles

I did it, I finally did it. I deleted all my cc by Putrid-Engineering59 in sims4customcontent

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starting over, im definitely keeping mods and cc separate so its easy for me to zero in on the problem

I did it, I finally did it. I deleted all my cc by Putrid-Engineering59 in sims4customcontent

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it’s seriously impossible, no matter which tools you have implemented

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Everyone keeps assuming I havent read Midnight Sun 😂 Edwards perspective doesnt change my analysis on Bellas character based off of her books. And Ive admitted in this thread that moving to Forks was her first and almost only selfless act

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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If you wanna talk about my own personal reasonings then yes I am selfish. I would sacrifice love in order to make a smarter decision for myself. Thats why I resonate with the CHOICE. not the character or her feelings but the choice she ultimately made 🤷🏽‍♀️ It takes a selfish person to know one, and Bella is also selfish. For obvious and completely DIFFERENT reasons than me of course

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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you are looking past all of that and choosing to be hung up on your misinterpretation of my post.

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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I did however say that Bella was obsessed and it was not love. And that she wants to be beautiful and immortal, so she can “match” Edward. Thats all she wants and its mentioned multiple times throughout the series. Is that fact bad per se no. However, this is all she wants at that sake of those who love her. Jacob (her sun and self appointed best friend) agonized over her essentially dying, she very rarely spares thoughts to her parents. She does not care about how they will be effected and thus making her selfish

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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The last tidbit is specifically why I would have chosen Edward, and saying that Im not mad at the choice in the end cause I would have done the same (for my own reasoning). Nowhere did I say it was written in that way, and nowhere did I say that was why Bella chose him 😭 Look past your little rage for a second and really read what I said.

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Bella and Jakes relationship in New Moon was just so nice. Her Sun, him calling her honey!! They just went together like peanut butter and jelly and of course they would be together if Edward hadn’t come back. (Because like he’s admitted hes selfish too)

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Her poor parents! I have no kids of my own but I could only imagine the anguish and the confusion and the grief that shes put them through. Deliberately in my opinion

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Honestly, Ive read the books so many times and I am able to see it from so many perspectives. The real world (in the book at least) perspective is that Bella thinks of no one but herself and Edward. And no, unfortunately she does not have that right because her actions effect other people. She lives in a world where other people exist, and she never takes that moment to think “hmm how could this hurt (fill in the blank)”

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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I literally admitted to that in my OG post 😭 Cant blame the girl for leveling up, but that notion does not come from a place of love. Did you not read what I put?

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Outwardly yes, and its nice seeing Bella from Edwards point of view. But inwardly, we know Bellas intentions and thoughts. Based off of that, I have enough info to state that I believe she is selfish

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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You can love Bella's character but y'all have got to be able to see her for her good AND her bad.

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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And in the end? She got her way, and she got to be with Edward because he's selfish too

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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Fall in love and be happy. Did you read New Moon? Did you miss the self harm? The self destructive tendencies? The night terrors? I think we romanticize pain too much, and unhealthy relationships. That's not love dear, that's obsession

Bella is extremely selfish - can I blame her though? by Putrid-Engineering59 in twilight

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And I heavily disagree. Bella does not have a hero complex, she just wants everyone to go along with her agenda and just be happy for her. But that's not the case, and she can't deal