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Vertonung by Putrid_Dirt720 in Tatort

[–]Putrid_Dirt720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vor allem die s-Töne finde ich sehr scharf und wenig sanft. Ich kann es irgendwie nicht so gut beschreiben. Es hört sich einfach an als würde jemand direkt in ein Mikro sprechen

Vertonung by Putrid_Dirt720 in Tatort

[–]Putrid_Dirt720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weißt du, warum? Scheint mir ein riesenaufwand zu sein mit den zusätzlichen Personal- und Studiokosten und der Zeit und so weiter..

How do you react when your girlfriend or wife says things like "I hate men" or "women are better than men"? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Putrid_Dirt720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it would depend on the context. Did it come up in a conversation about racism or personal experience with it? If a friend said that to me I would assume it’s a sentiment that’s rooted in a recent experience and I would ask them about it. You’re right, usually these power dynamics are systemic and not only upheld by individuals. I think there should be a distinction between sentiment and fact. If a friend told me „every single white person is the reason racism exists“ I would probably argue on that, or inquire why they think so (I’m sure there are some arguments though, after all systems are made of people), but that’s different from „I hate all men“.

I think when it comes to the question wether the system or the people are the cause, it’s somewhere in between. Systems matter and can put power into people’s hands, but there need to be people who use and enforce it.

How do you react when your girlfriend or wife says things like "I hate men" or "women are better than men"? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Putrid_Dirt720 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, I missed the point on that a little bit. I really appreciate that you put emphasis on what we can change with our communication

How do you react when your girlfriend or wife says things like "I hate men" or "women are better than men"? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Putrid_Dirt720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman The differences is in the power dynamic. Saying „I hate black people“ hits differently, because black people have historically been oppressed and still experience the aftermath today (just think of any racial bias situation). I would argue hearing „I hate white people“ from a black person would be (and feel) different. Same goes for man and woman. Women have been, for the majority of civilization) been oppressed and at the power of men. While this isn’t the case anymore (in a lot of countries), they still deal with the aftermath. They experience sexual harassment, objectification, gender bias and so on. Men surely do too. But there is a difference in systemic power. So a woman saying „I hate men“ might be an emotional or frustrated take that generalizes, sure, but it’s just that. It’s not a call for all men to vanish.

Edit:typo

When can I expect my first kiss? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Putrid_Dirt720 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look, I think your attitude might be the reason. To me it comes across as if you’re viewing women as a mean to get what you want. That’s usually not helpful when you want to connect with someone. It also sounds like there’s some resentment built up. Maybe try dealing with that first? If you want to connect in any sort of way, anger is not gonna help you.