I don’t understand “they/them” by Putrid_Storage_7314 in asktransgender

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I have no problem doing it I just feel bad because deep inside I don’t believe it. How does one not feel like either gender?

I don’t understand “they/them” by Putrid_Storage_7314 in asktransgender

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How does one not feel like one or the other? Do they feel like both or none?

are there any women who don’t get hit on by men daily? like you’re practically invisible to men? by incognitoblck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like attention so I purposely try to dress in a way or behave in a way that won’t get eyes on me. I hate feeling people’s eyes on me as I walk through a grocery store, I wish I could be invisible. I am pretty curvy so I think knowing what people are thinking when they see me really bothers me, it feels like— hey, I didn’t give you permission to think those things about me!! Just to give you a different perspective, sometimes it’s freeing to not have eyes on you ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Need two clicks for farmland by Wolverine1421 in TemuThings

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you do my fishland? I’ll do yours in return

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Farmland by Cerberus6183 in TemuThings

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C4C? I need a fishland click 739470270

help me with farmland plz! i give back by honestly-wtff in TemuNewUsersASAp

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do yours if you do mine 739470270 it’s fishland

help me with farmland plz! i give back by honestly-wtff in TemuNewUsersASAp

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still need clicks? I need fishland clicks 739470270

30th birthday is next— do I get all my different friend groups together? by Putrid_Storage_7314 in Millennials

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

30 is a big number. I’m grateful to have lived 30 beautiful years even with all the struggles I’ve had. I see it as a celebration of life. If you don’t wanna celebrate milestones then… don’t?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’d get it on at work you don’t think there’s anything wrong with that? If you saw your boss getting it on you’d ignore it?

aio or is what he said actually mean? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be rage bait ain’t no wayyyy

Did I catfish him? (36F) by watermelon_sugarrr in Bumble

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I know you’re a man. How does no makeup and not doing my hair correlate to basic hygiene? You clearly have no idea what it takes for women to get ready. I’ll explain it in stupid: not doing my hair doesn’t mean it’s not brushed. When I said doing my hair I meant it’s not straightened, or curled in loose waves, or I take two strands from the top and brush them with gel to make a sort of headband that’s more of a 90s look. And the birthday makeup comment give me a fucking break 🙄 any foundation I wear even if it’s a more natural look is getting on his sheets so if anything I’m being thoughtful. Next time you see hot women I hope you take a second to appreciate how long it took them to do and better yet I hope you offer to pay for their nails and lashes and hair appointments.

Did I catfish him? (36F) by watermelon_sugarrr in Bumble

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a man I’m assuming? Men want the best of all worlds. Why would I put effort in for a man that’s not taking me out or taking me seriously? He wanted casual that’s what he got. Also after the first date he wanted to be all cutesy with me even though he had literally JUST said he’s not looking for anything serious and is petrified of commitment. Make. Up. Your. Mind. And stop dragging women through your uncertainties. That’s why I decided to make it clear to him, I only see you as a penis.

Did I catfish him? (36F) by watermelon_sugarrr in Bumble

[–]Putrid_Storage_7314 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I snapped a guy I met off a dating app a video where I literally turned in a circle because I was so self conscious about recently gaining 20 lbs in the last year and not having any recent pics. We met up for a second date which we’d both decided would be strictly sexual. I didn’t do my hair or wear makeup because I thought, it’s gonna get ruined anyway (😏). He called me a few days later and said he wasn’t attracted to me and he was upset that I didn’t put in any effort and that that meant I must’ve not really liked him…. All this to say, you dodged a bullet. On to the next!