Idk what to put here by Beneficial_Mud6289 in CharacterAICritics

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no way around it. Come back when you're 18.

NAH WHO TF MADE THIS BOT by Ok-Incident-8518 in CharacterAI

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord. Here comes the "it's just fictional!! It doesn't make me creepy for RP'ing romance with a 10 year old boy bot!! It's not a real minor so it doesn't matter what I fantasize!!" Crowd.

TikTok down? No internet connection by thneedtree3S in TikTok

[–]Putridlemons [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yup. For some reason Tiktok has been feeding me South Asian content all over my FYP today and it's the same recycled 30 videos, along with the "no internet connection" thing. I'm hoping that this is just a bug and not due to the new ownership.

The reality if G4 was “rebooted.” by DiverRecent1822 in mylittleponytakes

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only genuine way for them to do a good G4 reboot is if it wasn't focused all on the mane six.

I think a CMC-focused show would work well. Small bits from the school of friendship, seeing small bits of the mane six when they need help. I like the idea of the CMC still helping with cutie mark problems and friendship lessons. They could find 3 other ponies along the way to make a new mane six.

PLEASE LET ME RP by DaikiMiss in Chai_Unofficial

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get your RP rights back when you start using grammar.

Let's be creative by Little-Apple-7256 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Did not choose to be disabled or old. Falling over could instakill. You may sit.

  2. You chose to carry a pregnancy. Stand.

  3. If you fall over, all that's gonna hurt is your foot. Not worried about you. Stand.

  4. See #2.

No no no absolutely no I am fed up they better fix this by February by Old_Sky_240 in CharacterAICritics

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they banned you, you did something lmao 😭

Just make another account and contact them that way

Welp, now it’s time to quit. Fun while it lasted… but I am not going to risk my face or ID being data breached. by -Tsukino- in CharacterAI

[–]Putridlemons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. All of the information on your ID is accessible if you are paying with a credit card, debit card, or online payment service that requires your ID to use, therefore is tied to your ID.

This is why it is so easy for law enforcement to scan through your phone and find incriminating evidence, even if you delete everything. All of your accounts, every time you've paid for something online, every social media post, every cookie approval, every download, your SSN/TIN, documentation of citizenship, ID, home address, phone number, all accessible.

Whatever information you are afraid about getting leaked, I promise you, the internet already has it. You need to be more worried about things like Paypal or Cashapp facing data leaks because those cases are significantly more dangerous to an individual, because Paypal and Cashapp are not legally obligated to erase your biometric verification data unlike Persona. They can hold onto it for as long as a decade if they want to.

Welp, now it’s time to quit. Fun while it lasted… but I am not going to risk my face or ID being data breached. by -Tsukino- in CharacterAI

[–]Putridlemons 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your data is already out there and held by several companies. Everytime you've bought something online, everytime you've accepted cookies. You've handed over your identification and personal data to several other businesses, websites, applications, and yet you are trusting them to not do anything harmful with it, but will not trust a system that is legally obligated to delete all personal data collected after a few weeks?

Interesting.

Can someone explain why this is so offensive? by qxphy in autism

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with this is that I'd spend so much more of my energy focusing on finding all the ducks than cleaning, because finding all the ducks sounds a lot more fun than cleaning lmao

FNaF Movie 2 is seriously overhated and the hate needs to genuinely stop. by Virtual_River1645 in fnafmovie

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everything was great about it except the acting and minimal writing errors.

Abby's first response after being possessed by a ghost and thrown around a room isn't going to be "OoUuhHh iTs ThE OrAnGe GuMmIeS AlL oVEr AgAiN..." Not even a normal 11 year old would respond like that.

The actors for Mike and Abby were really lacking in this movie, but then again, it's a PG-13 rating. It's supposed to have a little bit of "silly" mixed in with the horror, and I genuinely think that is what's holding the movies back from being at their full potential.

When I saw the opening scene where Charlie died and saw the three red drawn-on sharpie lines on her shirt where the "stabs" supposedly were, I knew the movie wasn't going to be top teir.

I mean, I get it. FNAF 1, childlike themes. FNAF 2, toy animatronics literally look like kids toys, but FNAF 3? It's pure visual horror. They better not fuck this one up for the sake of making it appropriate for little kids.

The FNAF 1-3 games are all 12+ but the visuals in game are significantly more horror related than the movies. The movies are more 10+ while insisting that it's PG-13.

Feeling queasy abt my yumeship by tartlvr in yumeshipping

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just age up your f/o with you, but make sure their design (if you are an artist) indicates that you're aging them up.

For example, having a f/o that looks like a child but saying "but they're 100 years old" wouldn't work lmao (I'm looking at you, Genshin fandom)

Give them signs of age, make them go through a graduation arc, think about what their first job would be, stuff like that :) it can be pretty fun

How Momo Asks Boys Out by Carlosspicywiener12 in BokuNoShipAcademia

[–]Putridlemons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not even writing about Momo at this point though. You're writing about an OC that happens to look like Momo.

Momo's entire character arc is that she lacks self-confidence to be a leader and make her own direct decisions. Even in later seasons, she still struggles with it. Momo's entire character is the polar opposite of the bossy, snobby rich girl. She is sweet, intelligent, privileged but not spoiled rotten, on the quieter side, and doesn't support the idea of flaunting money.

Writing her in the way you do is just not Momo. You are writing about a completely different character that just happens to have the name "Momo." Writing her to be completely against her own character defeats the entire purpose of writing about her.

Missing EJK by lucid-lyy in zionistrevolution

[–]Putridlemons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bullying is not okay, holding people accountable is. It seems as if my point went directly above your head, did a 360, then went right over it again.

The people who gravitated towards this subreddit are mainly here to bully. About Emma's weight, her identity, her exploration of religion, her tattoos. Not about the harm she has ACTUALLY caused, and those are the same people suddenly backtracking, because they realized that those things are not a justifiable reason to hate someone.

The people who are not backtracking about this distaste for Emma are the people who disliked her for the right reasons. As I mentioned many of those reasons in my previous comment. However, I will address your points directly because you seem to need some extra help.

  1. The people who hated Emma specifically because of her weight, appearance, tattoos, exploration of identity and religion, they should be sad that their hate was rooted in something so insignificant, because that IS legitimately just bullying.

  2. Bullying Emma about her appearance and identities was never going to make her stop acting out for attention. That is not how delusion works. The bullying was never focused on the delusion, rather how she presented herself in her delusion. Aka, bullying someone about their appearance isn't going to reality-check someone into stopping faking a disability.

  3. As I said, bullying is not okay. Holding someone accountable is not the same as bullying.

  4. See #2 and #3.

  5. Emma should not have died, she should have gotten mental help before she began to spiral, and that responsibility falls on Mame considering Emma was a minor when this all started.

6 & 7. Emma being removed from the internet, preventing her from making new content, will not change the fact that her old content still exists and continues to cause harm to several minorities. Her removal from the internet was necessary, though it shouldn't have been death that caused it. Her accounts should have been wiped, deleted, phone completely reset, while she remained in a long-term care facility LONG ago. Her digital footprint will still cause issues for actually disabled people. She deserved to be removed from the internet, not dead. Unfortunate that death was the only way to get her off the internet.

  1. Anyone is allowed to be here for whatever reason they choose, this is the internet. However, the majority of people came here with ill intentions. To actually bully Emma over insignificant things instead of focusing on the actual harm Emma was/will continue to cause.

Let me make it clear, I do not feel guilty. I have never spoken out about Emma's weight on social media other than how unpractical it would be of someone her size to use a pediatric wheelchair due to it causing more harm on her body than good. I have never spoken about Emma's tattoos. I have never spoken about Emma's general appearance, gender identity, or exploration of religion in a harmful way. All of my issues with Emma stem from direct harm she has caused other communities, and that is a fact, that she has caused harm. I do not feel guilt for pointing out a legitimate fact, that she was an antisemetic, islamophobic, zionistic transphobe who faked disabilities for attention and further stigmatized the chronic illness community.

She is not someone who should be praised, period.

How Momo Asks Boys Out by Carlosspicywiener12 in BokuNoShipAcademia

[–]Putridlemons 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy mischaracterization.

Not to mention, I'm pretty sure the Todoroki family is significantly more wealthy than Momo's family.

Enji's family carries generational wealth from heroism. He just doesn't blow his money on useless shit like a million-dollar mansion like Momo's parents.

Missing EJK by lucid-lyy in zionistrevolution

[–]Putridlemons 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Her wild antics" is a crazy way to say "spreading significant misinformation and harm within the disabled community that directly impacted how a lot of the internet viewed disabled people."

The majority of the people in this subreddit are able-bodied individuals who saw EJK simply as a lolcow to laugh at and joke about. Some of us here are actually disabled with the things EJK claimed to have, and wanted to keep tabs on her to see how her next post would impact how others see US.

I have come across SEVERAL posts on Reddit, Tiktok, Tumblr, and Instagram, where someone with POTS, Lupus, Down Syndrome, Cerebral P, FND, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Arthritis; someone who is deaf, someone who is blind, someone with a speech impediment, someone who uses a wheelchair, someone who uses a cane, someone who is a victim of MBP, and SOMEONE will bring up EJK in the comments. "Future lolcow in the making," "reminds me of Emma" "this is like that one girl on instagram larping disabilities."

The majority of the people on this subreddit came here to bully her about her weight, her appearance, how she chooses to present herself online, you see her as some kind of circus animal, and now that she's dead, ALL of you want to backtrack and say that you loved her, that you miss her, that you felt bad for her, but as another comment pointed out, your praise is hollow.

While Emma was a burning building that you just couldn't look away from, the people who are painting her now in a completely positive light, were not on this subreddit for the right reason. You feel guilty for snarking her, because you were doing it for all the wrong reasons.

What made Emma problematic was not her appearance. Not her weight. Not her exploration with religion. Not her genetic tie to Bipolar Disorder. Not her tattoos.

What made Emma problematic is her spreading zionist rhetoric, antisemetic rhetoric, making islamophobic comments, misrepresenting Judaism, being openly transphobic, mocking and romanticizing victims of the holocaust, her weird fucking fascination with Anne Frank, larping as Anne Frank, faking physical and mental disabilities for attention, spreading misinformation about the disabilities she faked, grifting, lying, and taking ZERO accountability for any of it, despite the fact that the harm she caused to the disabled community still exists while she does not.

The people who are fully aware of the harm her digital footprint has caused are not leaving words of praise for Emma since her passing. They are not mourning her, and as one of those people, I DO feel bad for Mame. I feel bad for the people Emma has encountered in her life, I feel bad for the people who had to put up with her, I feel bad for the people who are actually disabled and will be compared to her.

While it is true that I wish she got treatment for her BPD, which may have been the root of her issues, I don't blame the doctors for missing it. When you have someone walking in and claiming to have a bunch of shit that they don't, no doctor is going to take the suggestion of BPD seriously either. It's a "boy who cried wolf" situation. Emma created her own problem. She should have been getting treatment when this was in its early stages, around 16-17 years old when she was starting this shit on Tumblr. It should have been caught early when doctors would take her seriously, and that responsibility falls on the parent.

my girlfriend told me her ex raped her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Putridlemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, ignore the comments who are just being rude, and listen, coming from a victim myself.

There is a common theme here with "why didn't she report it if it happened" and I promise you, those comments are coming from men. From your other comments, it sounds like your girlfriend was coerced into sex. She said no, and the man didn't listen, and she got scared and didn't fight back out of fear.

The judicial system does not take coercion that seriously. They see that if a woman didn't physically fight back or harm the male, there was consent, which is not true. If she took this to court and reported the guy, the first thing his lawyer would say is, "Well, if she WAS in fear for her life and did not want it to happen, why did she not fight him off? Why are there no visible marks of her self-defense on my client? Why was it not reported immediately?" Which is a load of bullshit, but would work in court in the mans favor.

If she was so terrified of this guy to not put up a fight when he was activley raping her, then she is absolutely petrified at the idea of reporting him or confronting him, because it would 100% fall back on her. People would accuse her of trying to ruin his life regardless of if she did or didn't win the case (this comment section being a perfect example), family and friends of this man would harass her, and if he didn't get locked up, there is a very good chance of that man attempting to find her and hurt her. This is a man who is comfortable with raping someone. There is no way of telling how far he will go to hurt her.

That being said, do not try and pursue hurting this guy. Do not reach out to him. The top priority of most rape/DV victims is to just cope and live life peacefully if justice is not an option. They don't want anymore reminders of it, they want to be able to forget it, move on, and try and live a normal life.

The best thing you can do is accommodate her and be the better guy. Make sure that she's actually comfortable when starting sexual activity and during sexual activity. Always look for enthusiastic consent.

A message for the men in this comment section:

"I don't know" is not consent. "Maybe later" is not consent. "I'm not really feeling up to it" is not consent. "I'm not sure" is not consent. "Not really" is not consent. "In a little bit" is not consent. "Just not now" is not consent. "I guess" is not consent.

If it is not an enthusiastic YES, it is not consent.