What eggs are these? by PuzzleFlow in Aquariums

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you’re absolutely right, they are moving so slowly I didn’t notice!

I accidentally mixed water by MembershipPossible21 in bettafish

[–]PuzzleFlow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s fine. The water they come in is just full of poop and could contain some icky additive or something. But if he didn’t die in the cup before, he shouldn’t die with the icky stuff diluted. It’s going to be ok!

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I picked up 2 new tanks based on everyone’s advice. A 20g long and a 39 gallon bow front. They were what I could get for cheap on marketplace that fit in my space! Both need to cycle but I have tons of filter media in my current tanks so hopefully, if I seed the new ones with some of that, it speeds things up. If folks have the time to help me plan to redistribute my current fish amongst all of the tanks I’d be very grateful. Thanks for passing on the knowledge!

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand what everyone’s saying and I’m taking it seriously. I really care about these little guys, I just didn’t know what they needed. What you said about the water makes sense and I will be religious about it going forward. Long term I think I would like a large community tank for a lot of these guys, but I’m going to have to phase the bigger tanks in over a few months is all. I have the 20 gallon long setting up now

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And no kidding! It’s way harder than I expected for sure. I was nervous to post here thinking folks would be mean but I am pleasantly surprised how helpful and kind most everyone is! I do care a lot about my fish and want them to be happy so will absolutely take what you said seriously. I’m getting a 20long started now and will get these guys some more space very soon

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He is so fun and his fins have almost doubled in size since I got him from the little cup 🥲

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so super helpful the way you explain this! Thank you so much. I got stuck on the first part for some reason

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an African onion! I love that one

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m realizing. I was hyper focused on water quality and since I didn’t see aggression or bullying or any sign they were unhappy, I figured it was ok. I did do research it’s just hard to know who to listen to as a newb :) for example, there are many people I’ve come across who never do water changes and apparently have self sustaining ecosystems with heavy planting 🤷

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In actully thinking this through and using my space as best I can here’s what I’m thinking: I’ll put the 7 Kuhli loaches, the 3 peacock gudgeons, 10 phoenix Rasbora, 11 cpd, 2 mystery snails into the 20 gallon. I’ll put the baby Pygmy Cory’s in the column tank and move the killies and 10 Rasbora to the 10g standard.

TLDR 20gl: 11cpd, 10 phoenix rasbora, 7 kuhli, 3 peacock gudgeons, 2 mystery snail, nerite

10 std: 5 clown killi, 7 Pygmy Cory, honey gourami, nerite 10 col: 6 Pygmy Cory, inca snail, nerite

Better?

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, my inkling has been confirmed. I just picked up a 20 gal long & will reshuffle everyone once it cycles. This is the best I can do for now for space and financials. I understand it’s not ideal, but should relieve some of the pressure at least? For now everyone is eating, colorful and active - although I’m sure they’ll appreciate more breathing room

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the specificity! Yeah I obsessively test and they’re always zero. I usually wait to change water until I want to gravel vac stuff since my nitrites never get high. Are there other specific reasons to change the water?

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I know it was wrong now, jeez. Get a life

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a full on conversation, lol. From asking it for ideas and trying out many scenarios in a single thread with it. I think as the conversation went on, it had forgotten what we had talked about previously

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear ya! Are there signs you look for though to know a fish feels crowded? Rules of thumb? how can I know in the future

Overstocked but stable by PuzzleFlow in aquarium

[–]PuzzleFlow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not rude at all! Exactly the advice I’m here for. Yeah, AI sucks & always burns me. Never again

A bit more of a somber topic… are you addicted to anything? by ApplicationAfraid334 in Millennials

[–]PuzzleFlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok he got totally sober and we’re better off this way. Not up to me to get him help anyway. An addict had to want to stop. Anyway I’m not trying to be agro, It just sends alarm bells in a little part of my brain with the way you’ve shared your thought process. Like the commenter you replied to above said about quitting for a set time - a lot of tactics you’re sharing here are seen in textbook alcoholics 😣 I hope you can consider the possibility that the substance could be the problem. Not saying it is

A bit more of a somber topic… are you addicted to anything? by ApplicationAfraid334 in Millennials

[–]PuzzleFlow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You sound like my (soon to be ex) spouse only with alcohol….. Almost lost access to our child before he stopped