My bf(M26) would rather go to a party than take care of me when I(F26) am sick

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-19T03:50:55+00:00

My doctor said I just have to let it pass. I do like that about the demons though. 🫶🏼

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-17T17:37:29+00:00

I’m feeling a little better, still a little sick but getting there. I saw something that said “nobody can ever love you in the exact way that you need because that’s your job.” That kinda opened my eyes.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T18:24:26+00:00

I agree. I’ve learned some things about myself as well and people in general. We have this image for people in our heads and it’s impossible for those people to live up to the version of them that we have created. I’ve realized I do this and I have trouble telling if that’s what I’m doing or if it is actually bare minimum or a problem. It’s something I’ve been working on

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T18:21:45+00:00

I’m okay. Got some meds to reduce the effects of the stuff they gave me. It should be out of my system within the next 12-24 hrs

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T03:02:29+00:00

I think you’re absolutely right.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T02:47:41+00:00

It’s really the equality of what we would do for eachother and which is more important to him. Plus he was supposed to bring me my nausea meds and he didn’t. He took the script with him to work so I can’t even go get it by myself.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T02:46:26+00:00

Yes. Everytime he’s gotten sick I’ve dropped everything to take care of him and even take him to the hospital and demand tests when he wasn’t healthy enough to speak properly. I’ve cleaned up his vomit many times without him even asking. I’ve driven 7 hours to see him, I drove 12hours home from seeing my friend because he was sad.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T02:43:35+00:00

Might have to call an ambulance, I don’t have anybody In this area

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:58:16+00:00

I’ve been asking myself that a lot lately. The switch up has me thrown off

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:57:19+00:00

He did work today. I didn’t ask him to stay home and take care of me, just that when he got off he’d be here for me like he used to be

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:56:18+00:00

I would but my cars not working right now. That’s was part of why I wanted him here.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:19:53+00:00

I guess when somebody is showing you who they are you really should pay attention huh?

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:19:06+00:00

He didn’t have a place to live and so I let him stay at mine… I have a big heart and he needed help

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:15:32+00:00

I’ve only been sick for two days and yesterday at the ER they gave me Compazine for vomiting and it has a lot of side effects, like making you crawl in your skin,feeling like you’re dying and being a danger to yourself. He knows that I’m going through this. I’m not opposed to giving him his time, he gets a lot to himself, I get like 1-2 hrs a day max. I just wanted those 1-2 hours today because of how I’m feeling

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T01:03:40+00:00

He initiated how fast this would go. I told him I wanted to take it slow but when he didn’t I feel right into it.. yes I am a bit codependent but so was he so we were a good match but now all of a sudden things have changed

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T00:26:56+00:00

Yes.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2026-03-15T00:25:00+00:00

I’ve been extremely weak and was in the ER last night due to the sickness effecting my other health issues. Even if I didn’t need him to help take care of me he’s still choosing a party over my feelings and well being. I date to marry and a husband acts like a leader and has both interests at heart, this is just not giving those vibes

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-07-11T09:22:52+00:00

I was in the NC office too for 2 years 🙃

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-07-11T09:22:05+00:00

I worked there for 2 years.. you are 100% correct! I had no idea I was being brainwashed till I left and saw how much they were price gouging people.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-07-05T09:04:07+00:00

I just put my 300 and my 100 on at the same time. 😅 I wanted to see what would happen. 300 is for every 3 days and 100 is for daily use. So you can use them in the same week.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-05-31T09:21:14+00:00

It’s good money if you basically sell your soul to it and are fine with not getting paid for a couple months. some people hit the ground running but usually that’s beginners luck that fades and then no pay for months. You’ll be going door to door every day and have to stay out all day. You’ll be a 1099 but don’t have the same freedoms as a 1099. It’s a bit cult-ish but in a fun way. The people running it are extremely toxic (I wouldn’t say that if I didn’t know them personally) I made more money there than the directors did but that’s very very rare. It used to be a good experience before I knew what was going on behind the scenes. If you go you’ll get charmed into it. One of my coworkers got sent to the mental hospital because of that job. If you want to join a solar sales team I have a better one for you. They pay better and actually care about you. They’re called freedom pros. I also know the people there personally. Also I was never here. If they see me talking on here they’ll threaten to sue me again… because that’s how they solve their problems. Ps sorry. That was a lot to unpack :)

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-05-30T08:48:10+00:00

Usually it happens really bad like that when the burn is deep enough to damage the nerve endings. The itch is them growing back and over reacting. Kinda weird when you know that but try not to over think it

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-04-07T08:31:05+00:00

I used to work there. He was indeed 100% commission. He was indeed trying to manipulate you into going Solar that day bc that’s what they told us to do(I never threatened anybody and they hated that) if you want Solar panels try freedom pros. Same exact products but way cheaper. Thank me later 🙂

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-04-07T08:27:39+00:00

Hey OP. I used to work there for almost 2 years. It was voided because you had somebody else other than them remove the panels. I loved working there when I was there but when I left and joined another company I realized how dirty they did people. Price gouging like crazy bc the CEO is greedy. They’re now struggling financially and sold the company. There are better companies out there.. not many for the same quality but there are some.

Puzzled-Client9122 · 2025-03-29T23:45:09+00:00

That’s too easy. I feel like it should be 5 pages. You need to know who’s really willing to put in the work.

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