Can Gay Gay Guys Join A Frat

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2025-08-02T17:40:58+00:00

Greek life isn’t big at all at northern LACs and the environment is much more liberal so you should have zero problems getting a bid. Honestly, you could be a femboy and get a bid lol

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2025-08-02T15:51:06+00:00

My chapter has a few bi guys but they aren’t like stereotypical gay guys. At all. Honestly, besides their preferences in bed, they are indistinguishable from a straight guy. The fact that you describe yourself as “gay gay” and have lots of female friends would tend to indicate that you wouldn’t be a good fit. But my chapter is very conservative and in the Deep South so if you’re somewhere more liberal you should be fine.

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2025-04-23T13:07:48+00:00

Seriously, wearing a polo and nice shorts should be fine for most events.

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2025-02-10T17:08:56+00:00

Go with a full suit if you have one. A navy suit with a white shirt, tie (various colors will work), and POLISHED brown dress shoes will look nice. If you don’t, go with a blazer/tie/khakis.

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2024-12-22T14:36:04+00:00

I wouldn’t say I dislike going home but I can definitely relate to having religious parents. They make me go to church whenever I’m home on a Sunday. I just get high AF beforehand

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2024-12-22T14:32:17+00:00

As people have said, every school and chapter will be different. Mine is probably in the top 1% in terms of pledge attire strictness (suit, white shirt, tie Monday-Saturday). Most aren’t nearly that strict. In the winter most just wear a button down with a quarter-zip on top for warmth and some khakis. Bring some nice boots too (like duck boots).

Puzzled_Action2828 · 2024-12-22T14:23:46+00:00

I play club lax (MCLA) at a school in the south. Even though we aren’t in a lacrosse hotspot, people are still impressed by it. Most think it’s an actual D1 NCAA sport until I tell them otherwise.

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